Separated, how much should I provide?

JackRS

onetomany wrote: »

i agree get yourself out and abourt or on a dating website meeting people you dont have to go into a new relanship if your not ready but would be a great confidence boost

Who'd have me with luggage, debt...etc

suze200

JackRS wrote: »

Who'd have me with luggage, debt...etc

You don't have to disclose any of that on the first date. Just look on it as having fun. If things start to get serious then maybe you need to be open about things.

summerof0763

to be fair jack, most of us have a history by time we get to our age, would not that hold you back xx

rpc

JackRS wrote: »

Who'd have me with luggage, debt...etc

Who would have you if, at your age, you didn't have baggage? Someone later in life with no baggage might be perceived as someone who hasn't had much of a life!

onetomany

JackRS wrote: »

Who'd have me with luggage, debt...etc

any decent women would like you for you not what u got everyone has baggage god i got loads lol but im not given up

charlearose

How come your not going for a clean break and just child support
Sorry just being nosey now

justme111

Well I am looking.mostly.at divorcees and I would rather be wary.of one without kids by.40-45 than by one who has them with an ex. Besides yours will not require cs for much longer. Everybody looks for company , women as well. You probably not a good candidate for a serious relationship now while the mess is going on but for some convwrsation , company , whatever activity you would be great. Time will go by quick and in a year you will be one of the best matches once the dust is settled

onetomany

justme111 wrote: »

Well I am looking.mostly.at divorcees and I would rather be wary.of one without kids by.40-45 than by one who has them with an ex. Besides yours will not require cs for much longer. Everybody looks for company , women as well. You probably not a good candidate for a serious relationship now while the mess is going on but for some convwrsation , company , whatever activity you would be great. Time will go by quick and in a year you will be one of the best matches once the dust is settled

totally agree

duchy

Treevo wrote: »

I actually wouldn't say that was that extravagant. But then I'm a Waitrose, Ocado, farm shops kind of shopper.

Which is fine if you're funding it yourself

duchy

charlearose wrote: »

Start thinking for yourself and taking the advice from her and if you cant get a good divorce lawyer then get a good !!!!ing girlfriend because as your girlfriend ( I'm not btw) but no way would i see you being !!!!ed over the way your are at the moment. If i were your lawyer or girlfriend your ex wife would get child maintenance and that would be it and i would post her the address to the job center and the forms for income support so that she knows exactly where to go to sign on :rotfl:

Mmmmm You can see why divorces where a new girlfriend sticks her oar in go from stressful to an absolute nightmare. :rotfl: :rotfl: