Too late to back out? (Meeting a guy from Facebook)

suki1001

Tropez wrote: »

You realise he only gets annoyed because you're acting like a !!!!!!-tease by backing out? He thinks he's got you in the palm of his hand, and his winky is all excited by the prospect of nailing some young, naive and probably attractive girl, only for you to pull out at the last minute.

If he actually thought or cared about your feelings, he wouldn't get annoyed. He would understand and appreciate what a horrible situation he is attempting to force you into. He doesn't care about that though. What he cares about is the conquest and his desires.

What you need to do is go to a GP and get a psychology referral. This guy isn't going to make you happy, he's going to make you damn miserable.

Totally agree. One charming/charismatic man - does not equal a match made in heaven. You're just seeing a very shiny exterior, a man who's good at branding himself and saying all the right things that a vunerable 21 year old girl wants to hear.

thehappybutterfly

and where does your wee boy fit into these plans? Did you forget about him?

tesuhoha

I'd just like to add that you don't love him. You are infatuated by him because of his looks. If you think this is untrue, imagine the exact same experience with someone of his personality only the guy looks like one of the dwarves from the Hobbit.

Are you still in love with him or is he now a nasty cheating perverted stalking dirty old man?

suki1001

tesuhoha wrote: »

I'd just like to add that you don't love him. You are infatuated by him because of his looks. If you think this is untrue, imagine the exact same experience with someone of his personality only the guy looks like one of the dwarves from the Hobbit.

Are you still in love with him or is he now a nasty cheating perverted stalking dirty old man?

I don't think it is just because of his looks - it's because he has taken an interest in her and because he has manipulated her. If it was just down to his looks, then she would probably be able to walk away quite easily - but he's spent time on this one. He has been very nice to her - my dad always used to say the Italian maf1a are very nice - you just don't want to get on the wrong side of them.

tesuhoha

I still think looks play a large part in it. She wouldn't be in such a hurry to sh@g a Hobbit dwarf.

thehappybutterfly

tesuhoha wrote: »

I still think looks play a large part in it. She wouldn't be in such a hurry to sh@g a Hobbit dwarf.

Oh I don't know. If it was in the film she might........

marisco_2

Skippycat wrote: »

I'm bowing out of this thread now as I find it sickening that you would not only choose the path that is so blatantly wrong but that you obviously get some sort of kick out of bragging about your plans on a public forum.

Thank you so much for writing this. I feel exactly the same way. I have been cheated on and to read someone so callously planning to sleep with a married man, with no care about the devestation that would be caused to his wife, made me feel sick.

go_cat

Some schools don't go back till Wednesday

Tropez

go_cat wrote: »

Some schools don't go back till Wednesday

Are the Easter Holidays still going on?

When I was at school it was one week before Easter Sunday and the week after.

I don't know this world anymore...

trevor_john

Hold on a minute.......Earlier this year you posted about your boyfriend allegedly exposing himself to your young cousin via Skype.......... Are we talking about the same bloke here???:eek:


If so, then you have some serious mental issues which you need to address............

If not the same bloke then what does your boyfriend think of this Skype romance you're having???:rotfl: