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MSE pregnancy club II

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  • traveller
    traveller Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    CONGRATULATIONS SNUGGLEPUSS:beer:

    RJH-I'm due the same day as you and can well imagine how beneficial that massage was!My legs inparticular are really painful now and I've loads to sort out.I've been off from work the whole week and have done literally nothing than sleep and usual household stuff.I was given my list of what to get for my homebirth and am just hoping that my nesting instinct kicks in soon,as I have no cleaning/frantic tidying bug whatsoever. Is anyone else getting really forgetful, or is it just me?
    :A Your Always in my heart, you never ever will be forgotten-9/9/14:heart2:
  • laurasbump
    laurasbump Posts: 109 Forumite
    Just adding myself and bump. 4 weeks left!!

    EDD
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    stepneythebluebellengine - 28th March 2008
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 11th April 08 (was 8th April 2008)
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    mandycutiepie - 1st May 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    laurasbump - 6th May 2008
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    siren13577 24 May 2008 Having a girl!
    jb - 27th May 2008
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    Cookie08 - 7th June - Its a boy
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    barriefilms - 9th June
    jenza8 - 10th June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    Nicifer_noonoo - 13th June 2008
    Chicken1902 - 15th June 2008
    Tinka21 - 24 June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    honeybe21 - 2nd/3rd july 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    sugababesfan - 10th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    shazzany - 13th July 2008
    LilacPixie - 14th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Warburton100 - 25th July
    HStef81 - 29th July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    Carol9uk - 6 August 2008
    grad_gal25 - 11 August(My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    miss-piggin- 11 August 2008
    anm - 17th August 2008
    Saver Raver - 16th August 2008
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008
    handbagqueen - 20th August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    wotnext - 27 August 2008
    Linzm - 28 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- ? August 2008
    Trish 123-sept 6th
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    LolaManCity - 16th September 2008
    Orange29 - 18th September
    Keelykat - 19th September 2008
    Emjem - 21st September 2008
    JPWhittle - 24th September 2008
    Fritha - 26th September
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    CJ2405 - 2 October 2008
    heather38 - 11th october 2008 changed after scan!
    BargainAholic - 14th October 2008
    Danielle_Kenzies-Mum - 20th October 2008
    pollyanna24 - 22nd October 2008 - changed my date
    Daisykate124 - 3 November 2008 :cheesy:
    sarahh112 - 6th November 2008
    rachelleblondel - 7th November 2008
    kaza - 13th November 2008
    MrsY - 18th November 2008
    Lwcus78- 22nd November 2008
    LashyLashla - 4th December 2008 :D
    Toto - 24th November 2008

    TTC LIST
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    bloomin freezing
    Andrea78
    AnnieM
    Wondermum07
    Melvis
    SeptemberBaby
    Poppyjoe

    BIRTH LIST
    Bun - Annabeth Charlotte arrived 2 1/2 weeks early at 3.44am on 7th February, weighing 5lb 9oz.
    Cathie - Alice arrived 17 February at 1700 weighing 7lb 5oz
    Melly74 - Daisy Hannah arrived 19 February at 1822 weighing 7lb 14oz
    ukbandit - Sara arrived 28/02 @ 12.26 weighing 7lb 9oz
    Bailey - Molly Louisa 26/02 @ 8.31 weighing 8lb 1 oz
    miss_Be - Ember Thomasin Abbie arrived 00.18 2nd March 'Mummy's Day' 7lb 12oz, 10 days late but not overcooked
    nicci985 - Ozzie Joe arrived 29th february at 15.56 weighing 8lb 4oz!
    alison6692 - Daisy Pamela Smith - February 29th weighing 9lb 11oz!
    Elliesmum - Samuel Michael Sid Beardsley - arrived 3rd March 9lb 3oz
    3KIDSNOMONEY - Ben Daniel arrived 6th March, 7 days late 8lb 11oz.
    mandy2383 - Troy Christian 7 March born at 7:39pm weighing 8lb
    Purplegirluk1 - George born 5.47am 10th March 2008 weighing 8lb 2oz
    Samantham06 - Charlie David arrived 7.25pm 12th March 2008 weighing 7lb 8 1/2oz
    Dougggie- Edwyn Douglas, arrived 5.08pm 15 March 08, 8lb 14oz by emcs
    Pink Princess1 - Ruby Elizabeth arrived 19.25 on 26th March 2008 8lb 1oz
    snugglepuss - Peter David arrived 6 days early at 17:47 on 3rd April 2008 7lb by emergency forceps delivery

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    doobees - 4 March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008[/quote]
    Mummy to DS May 08 and DD Oct 09
    Started joint IVA in Nov 09 - 13 payments down 47 to go!
  • rjh090384 wrote: »
    just been packing my hopsital bag. how many nappies are u packing?

    Just got out of hospital yesterday lunchtime with our little one. DP forgot to pack the changing bag with the nappies, cotton wool, baby clothes etc in the car when we went in for the second time (wasn't far enough dilated despite contractions every 5 mins the first time, so got sent home with co-dydramol for the pain - like that was going to be enough!!). I had fortunately put a babygro (newborn size) in the labour bag I packed, so we used that until DP came in the day after the birth with a going home outfit for the baby, and the hospital provided all the nappies and cotton wool we needed for cleaning. They would have even provided a babygro to put on the baby after the birth, if necessary.
  • lwcus78
    lwcus78 Posts: 465 Forumite
    Congratulations snugglepuss and Peter!!
    Just been trying to calculate how much maternity time off I'll be able to afford. Just done a quick google search and am I right in saying we'll get 90%pay for 1st 6 weeks and SMP of £112.75 for remaining 33 weeks. Didn't it go up in April 2008?!!
    xx
  • I believe it is 90% for 13 weeks and then SMP until you hit 39 weeks (SMP should be about £117 a week now). You are then entitled to take a further 13 weeks unpaid. The entitlement changed for babes born after April 2007.
  • traveller
    traveller Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    Some employers do offer packages over and above the guidelines e.g full pay for 6 months.Worth asking.
    :A Your Always in my heart, you never ever will be forgotten-9/9/14:heart2:
  • JoJoB
    JoJoB Posts: 2,080 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Went to an active birth workshop yesterday which was very helpful - brought up lots of things I hadn't really thought about (will not be having the injection to deliver the placenta for example!). Just realised how unready I am considering I could drop any minute. Have been too skint to consider hiring a tens but will just go ahead and get that monday anyway cos it looks like it will help. And put a request on freecycle for a birthing ball as that looks very useful too.

    I started to panic about not having a birthing ball after the class and then had to remind myself that women had managed somehow without one over the millenia so i'm sure i can too. :D The tens, and anything that looks like pain relief though, is a must!
    2015 wins: Jan: Leeds Castle tickets; Feb: Kindle Fire, Years supply Ricola March: £50 Sports Direct voucher April: DSLR camera June: £500 Bingo July: £50 co-op voucher
  • just adding myself and bump. 6 weeks left!!

    EDD
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    stepneythebluebellengine - 28th March 2008
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 11th April 08 (was 8th April 2008)
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    mandycutiepie - 1st May 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    laurasbump - 6th May 2008
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    snugglemunchkin - 21st May 2008 Its a boy!
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    siren13577 24 May 2008 Having a girl!
    jb - 27th May 2008
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    Cookie08 - 7th June - Its a boy
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    barriefilms - 9th June
    jenza8 - 10th June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    Nicifer_noonoo - 13th June 2008
    Chicken1902 - 15th June 2008
    Tinka21 - 24 June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    honeybe21 - 2nd/3rd july 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    sugababesfan - 10th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    shazzany - 13th July 2008
    LilacPixie - 14th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Warburton100 - 25th July
    HStef81 - 29th July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    Carol9uk - 6 August 2008
    grad_gal25 - 11 August(My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    miss-piggin- 11 August 2008
    anm - 17th August 2008
    Saver Raver - 16th August 2008
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008
    handbagqueen - 20th August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    wotnext - 27 August 2008
    Linzm - 28 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- ? August 2008
    Trish 123-sept 6th
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    LolaManCity - 16th September 2008
    Orange29 - 18th September
    Keelykat - 19th September 2008
    Emjem - 21st September 2008
    JPWhittle - 24th September 2008
    Fritha - 26th September
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    CJ2405 - 2 October 2008
    heather38 - 11th october 2008 changed after scan!
    BargainAholic - 14th October 2008
    Danielle_Kenzies-Mum - 20th October 2008
    pollyanna24 - 22nd October 2008 - changed my date
    Daisykate124 - 3 November 2008 :cheesy:
    sarahh112 - 6th November 2008
    rachelleblondel - 7th November 2008
    kaza - 13th November 2008
    MrsY - 18th November 2008
    Lwcus78- 22nd November 2008
    LashyLashla - 4th December 2008 :D
    Toto - 24th November 2008

    TTC LIST
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    bloomin freezing
    Andrea78
    AnnieM
    Wondermum07
    Melvis
    SeptemberBaby
    Poppyjoe

    BIRTH LIST
    Bun - Annabeth Charlotte arrived 2 1/2 weeks early at 3.44am on 7th February, weighing 5lb 9oz.
    Cathie - Alice arrived 17 February at 1700 weighing 7lb 5oz
    Melly74 - Daisy Hannah arrived 19 February at 1822 weighing 7lb 14oz
    ukbandit - Sara arrived 28/02 @ 12.26 weighing 7lb 9oz
    Bailey - Molly Louisa 26/02 @ 8.31 weighing 8lb 1 oz
    miss_Be - Ember Thomasin Abbie arrived 00.18 2nd March 'Mummy's Day' 7lb 12oz, 10 days late but not overcooked
    nicci985 - Ozzie Joe arrived 29th february at 15.56 weighing 8lb 4oz!
    alison6692 - Daisy Pamela Smith - February 29th weighing 9lb 11oz!
    Elliesmum - Samuel Michael Sid Beardsley - arrived 3rd March 9lb 3oz
    3KIDSNOMONEY - Ben Daniel arrived 6th March, 7 days late 8lb 11oz.
    mandy2383 - Troy Christian 7 March born at 7:39pm weighing 8lb
    Purplegirluk1 - George born 5.47am 10th March 2008 weighing 8lb 2oz
    Samantham06 - Charlie David arrived 7.25pm 12th March 2008 weighing 7lb 8 1/2oz
    Dougggie- Edwyn Douglas, arrived 5.08pm 15 March 08, 8lb 14oz by emcs
    Pink Princess1 - Ruby Elizabeth arrived 19.25 on 26th March 2008 8lb 1oz
    snugglepuss - Peter David arrived 6 days early at 17:47 on 3rd April 2008 7lb by emergency forceps delivery

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    doobees - 4 March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008[/quote]

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  • lwcus78 wrote: »
    Congratulations snugglepuss and Peter!!
    Just been trying to calculate how much maternity time off I'll be able to afford. Just done a quick google search and am I right in saying we'll get 90%pay for 1st 6 weeks and SMP of £112.75 for remaining 33 weeks. Didn't it go up in April 2008?!!
    xx

    I think its £117.18 per week from 6 April 2008.
    I believe it is 90% for 13 weeks and then SMP until you hit 39 weeks (SMP should be about £117 a week now). You are then entitled to take a further 13 weeks unpaid. The entitlement changed for babes born after April 2007.

    Im pretty certain its only 6 weeks at 90%. Perhaps your employer is different thought?

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/MoneyTaxAndBenefits/BenefitsTaxCreditsAndOtherSupport/Expectingorbringingupchildren/DG_10018741

    :)
  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    traveller!! glad i have a due date buddy!!! i am totally nesting but i keep over doing it!!! i get a sudden burst of energy and hoover the whole house, then am wrecked and need to have a wee snooze!!!i feel really prepared but at the same time totally like eek i have to give birth and then i am going to have this baby which i need to care for!! help!! i am relaly excited though. seems like only yesterday i found out and now i look at my bumpy thrashing about and cant believe there is a baby in there!! had a wee scan at hospital for my 34 week checkuo(at 36 weeks) and baby is 5lbs 7oz approx at minute.
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
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