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MSE pregnancy club II

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  • Samantha -
    My mother in Law had DH when she was 18 then his brother 10 years later. She pointed out that it was so much easier on your body when you're younger, so just tell the oldies to put it in their pipe & smoke it. There was a nice article on teenage mums in one of the mags last month with a girl in same situation as you, t was very sweet. And congratulations!
    BTW it's illegal to sack someone because you're pregnant & the law is automatically on your side when it comes to this. I think you may have lost out on some money there. Direct.gov.uk is really useful for all kinds of maternity info, I would check it out if I were you. You may not want the stress but a tribunal would be on your side and you've been treated unfairly.
  • Added you to the list Samantham06

    EDD

    Phatmouse - 12th January 2008
    Sunny Angel- 14th January 2008 (I think!!)
    curly_em - 14 January 2008
    tbourne - 20 Jan 08
    Ciara111-22 Jan 08
    pinkmilkplease - 26th Jan 08
    Cathie - 7th February 08
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Melly74 - 17th February 08
    miss_be - 20th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    Bailey - 22 February 08
    alison6692 - 24 February 2008
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Bun - 25th February
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    3KIDSNOMONEY - 28th February 08
    Dougggie - 2 March 08
    Doobees - 4th March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008
    Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
    Elliesmum - 8 March 08
    mandy2383 - 9th march 2008
    Samantham06 - 14th March 2008
    ukbBandit - 15 March 2008
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 8th April 08
    snugglepuss - 9th April 08
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    honeybe21 - june 2nd/3rd 2008
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    grad_gal25 - August 11th (My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    Carol9uk - 13 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008

    TTC LIST
    Daisykate124
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    keelykat
    jpwhittle
    lwcus78
    bloomin freezing
    coleys

    BIRTH LIST
    tammyfshr - Hector - 6th December 2007. 5 days late and weighing 9lbs 15 oz
    Ebony: Alexandra Louise - 6th December @ 3.55 weighed 6lbs 4oz
    helend - Neve Sarah - 19th December - 7lbs9.5oz
    Suzukibabe- Adam thomas - 15th December, 2 weeks early - 4lbs 2oz.
    Sugarcubed - Baby Jenna born 23rd Dec @ 19.43 weighing 6lb 13. Cutey and starting to form a little personality
    Beakerange - Luke Joshua - 24th December @ 22.26 weighing 5lbs 13.5oz. 6 days overdue but an absolute star.
    Scruffy96uk - baby Ellie born 25/12/07 @ 10.03am weighing 7lb 8oz
    Becky_Sleaf - Ruby Isabelle - Christmas Day 14.41 after 55 hours in labour & an emergency c section!
    Anthillmob - baby Nathan born 30th Dec, 6lb 10oz
    Shelvis - Baby Alexander Robert born 2:45am 6th January 7lb 7 1/2oz
    nicola1982 - Baby Stephen Andrew born 12.37am 7th Jan 7lb 4oz
    flis21 - Tomas at 7.42pm on 7th January (13 days late!!) weighing 7lb7.
    Strawberry laces - Girl 7 January 2008, emergency c-section
    Slapps - Charlie Allen born 12.02pm on the 9th Jan weighing 7lb 10oz
    Yorkshirechick - Taylor James Quarmby born 12:32am on 12 January weighing 8lb 12oz
    chocaholic110 - Thomas Jacob born 4.08pm 18th January by emergency c-section weighing 5lb 8oz
    cazscoob - Charlie Morrison born 08:41 on 19th Jan weighing 8lb 8oz
    Ella_ella_ella - Baby Natasha Grace Hughes born 22nd January at 22.40 weighing 7lb 7oz
    Curly_em - Jake Michael born 22.42 on 21st Jan weighing 8lbs 11.5ozs
    liley9 - Erin Grace born on 24th January at 5.45pm weighing 6lb 2oz

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    All January 2008 births appear to be accounted for!

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    now mum of 4!!!
  • lwcus78
    lwcus78 Posts: 465 Forumite
    Hi girls,
    Congratulations elle, she's so beautiful.
    I have a question for Bun, but anyone else is free to answer too! Hope you dont mind me asking, but on the TTC thread I noticed that you had been taking basal temperature whilst TTC. You also mentioned that the BBT had gone up after ovulation when you were pregnant. Do you remember how many days after ovulation did this happen? On the cycles you weren't pregnant how many days before your period did the temperature drop? I know it varies for everyone but just wondering.... I'm just 3 days past ovulation. I have always been inpatient, but this waiting for a missed period is driving me crazy!! I'm trying to relax about it!!
    Thanks in advance for advice xx
  • Amy,
    have you been given an EDD yet? This may change at your 12 week scan & even your 20 week scan (unless you're 100% sure of when your dates are). That may help you, but I think they only officially change it if it's by 10 days or more (after all it's only an estimate).
    Your length of service has nothing to do with when you sign a contract, rather it's from the first day you worked for your employer. I don't even think you legally have to sign one, as long as you are given your T&C of employment. Check out http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Parents/Moneyandworkentitlements/Parentalleaveandpay/DG_10029285
    as it has a personalised helper which I found useful
  • Aww thanks everyone :D

    Being a mummy to Natasha is the best thing that has ever happened to me and even though i had concerns about coping when she was born i couldnt of been more wrong - i have never felt so relaxed and calm for years. I feel as though i have fallen in love and have a purpose.

    To everyone nearing the end, becoming tired or struggling with morning sickness - hang on in there!! I never thought i would get to the top of that list and remember being down in the 40's but everything is so worthwhile once you hold your tiny gorgeous innocent baby x

    Choc, Dramatic is definatley the word for your little man's arrival, i hope you and baby are doing ok. I will PM you about hospital's soon!!
    :heart: I love my gorgeous little girl :heart:
  • traveller
    traveller Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    Ella,I'm so glad all went well with baby Natasha-she's lovely.Samantha06, like you I was 19 when I had my first and 34 now I'm having my 4th and I still find most staff patronising! It really makes no difference.When I was young,I felt as though people tried to bully me into their ways of thinking, as as 3 kids said ,now I stick up for myself as there is not alot I don't know now,lol!
    Hang in there and remember It's your baby/pregancy and enjoy it all!
    :A Your Always in my heart, you never ever will be forgotten-9/9/14:heart2:
  • feel as though we have a lot in common traveller. i had my eldest at 19 and now at 30 am expecting number 4.

    The results of my urine came back clear which i was really surprised at. In a way if would have liked to have had a urine infection as it would have explained the uncomfortable feelings down below - as it happens that is just baby and i will have to put up with it. Feel as though the end is nigh and getting a bit scared as i am due in under 4 weeks. Just hope he doesn't come during school hols as childcare is a bit of an issue. Definitely sleeping better though now i am not thinking about driving test/lessons. Although i do have to change sides regularly as i my thighs go a bit numb with all the extra weight.
    now mum of 4!!!
  • Melon78
    Melon78 Posts: 598 Forumite
    Afternoon all :)

    Think i posted in this thread when i first found out i was pregnant with number 3 and not since then, whoops!

    Anyhow, number 3 was due yesterday (my dates) and due tomorrow by scan dates. Never been this pregnant before as my 1st arrived at 38 weeks and my second on his EDD! I'm expecting another big one (2nd was 10lb 3oz) and a scan 3.5 weeks ago estimated her as being 8lb 13oz! As a result i've got till Friday to let nature do its thing otherwise i have to have a c section, not overly keen on but as long as we're both ok thats the main thing.

    Sarah
    x
    Slightly worn out mum to 3 (DS1 May 03, DS2 Feb 05, DD1 Feb 08). When i grow up i think i'll become a UN Peace keeper....
  • :j icon1.gifList update
    Added you to the list Samantham06

    EDD

    Phatmouse - 12th January 2008
    Sunny Angel- 14th January 2008 (I think!!)
    curly_em - 14 January 2008
    tbourne - 20 Jan 08
    Ciara111-22 Jan 08
    pinkmilkplease - 26th Jan 08
    Cathie - 7th February 08
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Melly74 - 17th February 08
    miss_be - 20th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    Bailey - 22 February 08
    alison6692 - 24 February 2008
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Bun - 25th February
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    3KIDSNOMONEY - 28th February 08
    Dougggie - 2 March 08
    Doobees - 4th March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008
    Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
    Elliesmum - 8 March 08
    mandy2383 - 9th march 2008
    Samantham06 - 14th March 2008
    ukbBandit - 15 March 2008
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 8th April 08
    snugglepuss - 9th April 08
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    honeybe21 - june 2nd/3rd 2008
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    grad_gal25 - August 11th (My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    Carol9uk - 13 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008

    TTC LIST
    Daisykate124
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    keelykat
    jpwhittle
    lwcus78
    bloomin freezing
    coleys
    Andrea78


    Hi everyone, its my first time on here. Just thought I'd stop by to say hello x
  • Hi ladies, I'm just updating before the Birth List gets lost for good! :eek: ;):D

    x

    EDD

    Ciara111- 22 Jan 08
    pinkmilkplease - 26th Jan 08
    Cathie - 7th February 08
    Marvalous - 12th February 08
    Melly74 - 17th February 08
    miss_be - 20th February 08
    Loopy-loo73 - 21 Feb 08
    Bailey - 22 February 08
    alison6692 - 24 February 2008
    PiscesPrincess - 24th February 2008
    Bun - 25th February
    Ella29 - 27th February 08
    3KIDSNOMONEY - 28th February 08
    Dougggie - 2 March 08
    Doobees - 4th March 08
    svmitche - 4th March 2008
    Purplegirluk1 - 6th March 2008
    Elliesmum - 8 March 08
    mandy2383 - 9th march 2008
    Samantham06 - 14th March 2008
    ukbBandit - 15 March 2008
    Heavenleigh - 24th march 08
    Melg1973 - 24th march 08
    Newleafer - 27th march 08
    Pink Princess 1 - 29th March 08
    tranquil - 2 April 2008
    Girl And The City - 5 April 2008
    redflame705 - 8th April 08
    snugglepuss - 9th April 08
    gemsygem (Sheel's daughter) 19th April 08
    MonkeyLady - 20th April 08
    JojoB - 20th April 2008
    PinkPrincess 21st April 2008
    machairs - 24th April 2008 (may change after scan)
    cluuuuur - 25th April 2008
    debecca - 26th April 2008
    Kelsi-Blu - 27th April 08
    Katgoddess - 29th April 2008
    lostbuckaroos - 2 May 2008 (although doc thinks that could be 2 weeks out!)
    rjh090384 -3rd May 2008 (changed at 12 week scan)
    Traveller -May 3rd 2008 (but probably 10th as always a week late!!!
    Knotty29 - 16th May 2008
    magan- 18th May 2008
    destiny_star2006 - 22 May 2008 (or could be 2 June!)
    clarkey1000 - May 31st 2008
    honeybe21 - june 2nd/3rd 2008
    Harding 1985 - 9 June
    nik2108 - 11th June 2008
    aggiev - 1st July 2008
    sunday_girl - 6th July 2008
    skyeandeviesmummy - 13th July 2008
    I love my Pomeranian - 15th July 2008
    Jak - 18th July 2008
    bethom - 20th July 2008
    skintnutta - 21st July 2008
    Blink_Blink - 3rd August 2008
    ParadiseKidd - 6th August 2008
    grad_gal25 - August 11th (My Birthday This was so not planned!)
    Carol9uk - 13 August 2008
    Scottish-Diva- August 2008
    LindseyandMatthew 23rd August!
    foreversomeday - 27 September 2008 (May change after scan)
    Chutzpah - 8th September 2008 (we haven't had a dating scan yet)
    Sarahrey1 - 20th August 2008

    TTC LIST
    Daisykate124
    Cookiesncream
    witchyroo
    sjm
    Fishcake_random
    Lesleydejager
    jo_jo
    picklesmum
    durham_girl
    likabu
    Pooky
    emptypocketz
    Miss_pink & Mr Pink
    Boobylou
    lilmrsmullen
    jiblets1
    Lillian06
    ginvzt
    Uisge10
    CHARLIE54
    keelykat
    jpwhittle
    lwcus78
    bloomin freezing
    coleys
    Andrea78

    BIRTH LIST
    Shelvis - Baby Alexander Robert born 2:45am 6th January 7lb 7 1/2oz
    nicola1982 - Baby Stephen Andrew born 12.37am 7th Jan 7lb 4oz
    flis21 - Tomas at 7.42pm on 7th January (13 days late!!) weighing 7lb7.
    Strawberry laces - Girl 7 January 2008, emergency c-section
    Slapps - Charlie Allen born 12.02pm on the 9th Jan weighing 7lb 10oz
    Yorkshirechick - Taylor James Quarmby born 12:32am on 12 January weighing 8lb 12oz
    chocaholic110 - Thomas Jacob born 4.08pm 18th January by emergency c-section weighing 5lb 8oz
    cazscoob - Charlie Morrison born 08:41 on 19th Jan weighing 8lb 8oz
    Ella_ella_ella - Baby Natasha Grace Hughes born 22nd January at 22.40 weighing 7lb 7oz
    Curly_em - Jake Michael born 22.42 on 21st Jan weighing 8lbs 11.5ozs
    liley9 - Erin Grace born on 24th January at 5.45pm weighing 6lb 2oz

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Phatmouse - 12th January 2008
    Sunny Angel- 14th January 2008 (I think!!)
    curly_em - 14 January 2008
    tbourne - 20 Jan 08
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