Hoarding - Springing Ahead

parsniphead

I would understand his breast fetish if he had been breast fed. I spent three months trying to get the little devil to latch on and so did many, many experts. Months of feeling like a failure followed. Who would have thought he would become obsessed with them.

Now he is three he is constantly having a look and if he sits on my lap his hands shoots down my top and of he goes twiddling.:eek: It's enough to drive me to distraction. Mind you he loves twiddling daddy's nipples too. :rotfl:

The de-hoarding has gone well today with lots more stuff sorted and a trip to the tip planned tomorrow. I still have the back room to start, so this is planned for tomorrow.

pigpen

It is perfectly natural.. and lets face it, breasts feel nice!!! They are warm and soft and smell of mummy.. where do they rest their head for cuddles?? But 3-4 they are learning why men and women are different and about body parts and how the world works.. just show him appropriate behaviours for inside and out of the home.. indoor/outdoor voices, when we are allowed to wear at home and out.. like we have pjs for bed and day clothes for day times and school clothes for school etc.. and where we can and cannot get our body parts out.. my daughter get stark naked in Tesco at about 3 they all learn eventually!!


Today I AM going to do some bedroom flinging.... I have announces it here so I have no choice.. I shall be back with fling-data later!!

pigpen

I've trashed my room... now the baby needs to go in there for a napand I don't think I can find time to sort it before dinner tonight which means before bed and I will need sleepsies.


WHAT HAVE I DONE!!!!!!!!


I also have a problem, I just got out the baby basket for DD1 and washed it all.. and I may just need a baby. I don't really, I don't have room, money, patience or time for a baby but I want one... let's hope good sense and the realisation I am old prevails.. I need to remind myself how dreadful I felt with the last 3!!!!!!

whitewing

pigpen,

get your house decluttered before you even think about having another babba.

pigpen

whitewing wrote: »

pigpen,

get your house decluttered before you even think about having another babba.

I can't and really shouldn't.. it would be silly with OH out of work and no hope of getting work locally for the foreseeable future.. common sense will prevail and mother nature can stay out of it.. I am trying hard not to let it happen.


I am sometimes sensible..


decluttering isn't too awful downstairs and I just am working through a box in the direction of ebay so hopefully that will soon be all gone too! Some is being chazzered!

ModestyB

I feel great today, a whole, large cupboard full of junk has been sent back to it's owner and I actually have space to put my stuff away instead.

I hadn't realised how the knowledge of it being there was affecting me, since he text me and said he wanted it I feel lighter and brighter.

It's made the break final and I don't have to worry about him ever coming to my door again. Which also means I've decluttered a bullying, abusive, manipulative son.

I have also been able to sort some of my clutter out too. A load of handbags are ready for the c.s. I'm not taking any more clothes to the cash for clothes shop though, £3.10 for 6.2 kilo of clothes is an insult.

Well done everyone, keep on keeping on. :T

pigpen

I have flung 2 pairs of shoes in cs bag and 2 pairs in the ebay box.. I could then put away my 2 new pairs of boots.


I have a bag of baby stuff to take to dd1 and the moses basket and 2 stands.. and the baby bath. I put some bedding in the cupboard and you cannot tell one jot hahaha... I put away as much of my floordrobe as I could.. a long long way to go but it is a start.


I have made the decision to fling the corner sofa from the backroom and the 2 seater from the front room, both of which are knackered.. the 3 seater can come into the middle room where the corner one once was and look much nicer and I will have free'd space to start decorating the front room. more work for me but it is desperate for a freshen up in there.

whitewing

Very inspiring pigpen

whitewing

I have gathered up all the loose receipts. Found £3.85 of price difference vouchers so that was a job worth doing.

parsniphead

All the toys and clutter have been scooped of the floor in the back room and the whole floor has been vacuumed.......it's been a while for the whole area to be done. I have a few bits on the table to find homes for or get rid of and a few bits of ironing to do but it's starting to look more organised. Just the stupid, oversized snooker table to get rid of so the real work of decorating and moving into that room can be done. I think a few phone calls to local youth clubs, etc may be needed. It has to go.

I also need for the old gas fire to be taken out so I can rip out the terrible 60's fireplace and surround. I really want this room sorted by Christmas.