Buffy takes babysteps.

Sparkles87

Really sorry to hear this Buffy, love can be so cruel sometimes. Look after yourself xx

elantan

Buffy just catching up, sorry to hear things have not worked out with oh ... I hope it sorts itself out for you both

What colour are the shelves?

urg123

Oh Buffy - was so not expecting that. I'm so sorry to read this.

Take your time and do what you need to do. Decluttering, flirting, crying, taking to your bed, screaming and shouting.

You are a wonderful person - don't forget that...

urg x x

Wol2

MAHOOSIVE HUGS :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

and lots of whiskery piggie licks and nuzzles

Buffy - I'm so sorry to hear your news and understand you must be feeling pretty carp at the moment.

I have done the whole dating thing etc - and it hasn;t worked out multiple times. It's taken a while, but I am now truly happy on my own with the piggies and can;t even envisage wanting to go out and find someone... let alone sharing my current life/abode with them.:eek:

I guess this is because I have finally recognised and come to terms with who I really am as a person...and the new friends I have made accept and value me as an individual in my own right.....and I/they don;t "judge" me as "should be one half of a couple".

So remember Hun - you;re wonderful - just like me - with or without another half!

Stay strong Hun....perhaps you fancy a wee visit to some friends in Winnie the Pooh country in July to chill out a bit? Offer is there.......

xxxx

chevalier

So sorry to hear about you and your man breaking up. What a shock for you. And you are quite entitled to ball your eyes out over it, for a bit...

Good luck with getting through the week
chev

Wol2

It sounds better from the Eagles when they sing it - but they have kept it restricted. from copying.....

So here is a Cover version :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KN6TarlrRBM

Think the words say a lot and hope you realise that we are all here routing for you.......


Hugs Hun
xxxx

Buffythedebtslayer

thanks all.

waking up this morning was yucky. not thought about work or money all weekend.

not thought about much really. The room stinks of paint still. hate gloss. the shelves were white Elantan.

best get up for work.

I just want to sob and sob and sob. think there will be a lot of early nights in my future.


Have good days all.

To be honest I am mainly thinking about KissJenn today, all send vibes when you can

Love Buffy.
xx

beanielou

Yes, am thinking of KJ too & trying to not sweat the small stuff.
Baby steps Buffy xxx

Buffythedebtslayer

Got through the day. didn't spend any money.

registered with an agency

basically this week I am running around like a blue arsed fly horrible phrase so distasteful but nevertheless what I am doing.

It is either that or stop and think and I cannot do that. I can't think that I was happy. Happy.

counting the days counting the money.

elantan

were counting with you honey xxx