How do you know when he likes you?

tesuhoha

If he's 12 years older than you are you 100% sure he is not married, or has a partner?

tesuhoha

Oh, apologies you've answered that question already.

Errata

love4cats wrote: »

I have been thinking about messaging him saying something along the lines of 'you know what you said earlier? well what if that was the case?'

TBH that's something you do when you're 12 years old. Woman up and talk to him.

martinthebandit

Just ask him if he fancies going out for a drink sometime.

There is absolutely no need to over think it.

rachbc

I met my now hubby at work - there was no gossip as we never gave them anything to gossip about - we were always honest that we were together but discrete (no snogging in the stationary cupboard). It never caused any problems professionally for either of us

marisco_2

love4cats wrote: »

"I can understand how you did it, you were too busy gazing at me with the door open and the light lighting me up from behind"

:rotfl:

He thought you tripped up because he was illuminated. Did his amazing lit up physique make you lose your balance? Oh dear I have heard it all now. Sorry but you will never be 'the one' for him. He sees the person he loves most when he looks in the mirror :cool:

love4cats

marisco wrote: »

:rotfl:

He thought you tripped up because he was illuminated. Did his amazing lit up physique make you lose your balance? Oh dear I have heard it all now. Sorry but you will never be 'the one' for him. He sees the person he loves most when he looks in the mirror :cool:

Perhaps I should have added that he wasn't being serious when he said it. He certainly said it in a jokey manner but there was something that made me think he meant something by it.

But it was certainly a million miles away from anything conceited. He's not that type of guy.

love4cats

Errata wrote: »

TBH that's something you do when you're 12 years old. Woman up and talk to him.

All fine and well if you don't suffer from the serious lack of self confidence that I do. I can talk to guys in a casual manner i.e at work, but ask me to ask them out, even for coffee, and I plain can't do it.

SuzieSue

love4cats wrote: »

All fine and well if you don't suffer from the serious lack of self confidence that I do. I can talk to guys in a casual manner i.e at work, but ask me to ask them out, even for coffee, and I plain can't do it.

Most people can't so don't feel inadequate. If you can't ask him then email or text him.

piccybabes

SuzieSue wrote: »

The best thing to do is steer the conversation towards a film you would like to see (preferably also one that he might like and hasn't seen yet) and then suggest that you could both see it together.

Something like:

My friend went to see Les Mis over the weekend and thought it was brilliant. Have you seen it yet?

Hopefully he will say no and you can go from there.

Nooo! No woman will look at their best after this film. My wife spent two of the three hours sniffing into a roll of tissue paper she'd taken especially for the occasion!