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How do you know when he likes you?
love4cats
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There's a guy at work that I really like. We're always chatting and having a laugh and I think he likes me too but I can't be sure and I don't want to 'make a move' without being sure.
He made a comment today and on one hand I'm thinking is he saying that because he likes me or is he just mucking about? I tripped up at work right in front of him (talk about embarrassing!) and later on when we were in a taxi together he said "I can understand how you did it, you were too busy gazing at me with the door open and the light lighting me up from behind". I laughed but I didn't say anything in return. I can't be sure he wasn't just mucking around, though he said it a while after it happened.
Before that he'd spent quite a while talking to me (things at work are a bit slow at the mo so we had some free time).
I was thinking of saying something but I don't want to get it wrong. Are there any signs I should be looking for? If a guy is interested in that way, would he just make it obvious or could he be wondering the same about me? I'm so confused and I really like him it's annoying.
He made a comment today and on one hand I'm thinking is he saying that because he likes me or is he just mucking about? I tripped up at work right in front of him (talk about embarrassing!) and later on when we were in a taxi together he said "I can understand how you did it, you were too busy gazing at me with the door open and the light lighting me up from behind". I laughed but I didn't say anything in return. I can't be sure he wasn't just mucking around, though he said it a while after it happened.
Before that he'd spent quite a while talking to me (things at work are a bit slow at the mo so we had some free time).
I was thinking of saying something but I don't want to get it wrong. Are there any signs I should be looking for? If a guy is interested in that way, would he just make it obvious or could he be wondering the same about me? I'm so confused and I really like him it's annoying.
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Do you mean as a friend or more?Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....0
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I would say smile a lot at him, laugh at his jokes, be around him as much as possible and wait for him to ask you out to dinner.0
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Sounds like banter to me. Otherwise it's a bit close to the mark.0
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I'd ask him to the pics or for a meal. Not a drink as that's 'friends' and you want to know if he likes you as more than that.Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....0
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I would suggest you ask him the same question that 74jax asked you - "do you like me as a friend or more"? You may or may not get the answer you want, but if you don't ask you may never know ....0
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Is he single? and he is similar age to you?0
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thunderbird wrote: »Is he single? and he is similar age to you?
He's definitely single and 12 years older than me, but the age gap doesn't bother me.0 -
How awkward would work be if you went out on a limb and were wrong?
Is it worth the risk?0 -
Prolonged eye contact is always a winner, when chatting hold his gaze and see how he reacts, if he smiles and keeps the eye contact you are in!I don't get nearly enough credit for not being a violent psychopath.0
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