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  • VK-2008 wrote: »
    sambucas maybe if you read back your comments you would see you are coming accross as stubborn and aggressive other users have commented on this as well
    if you dont want to take part in the suggestion of WEDDING gifts then leave the thread and let it run as it should be

    I've already mentioned that they actually requested nothing from you. They probably don't need anything and so would rather just spend time with you as a friend. How is that being aggressive? It's a compliment!

    I'm not stubborn and aggressive - you started slinging insults at me for simply asking you a question.
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • VK-2008
    VK-2008 Posts: 926 Forumite
    Why not let's all agree to be adults and stop discussing towel and nappy cakes?

    Yes we all have different views but I sound like a broken record when I say we are all entitled to our own opinions
    :A VK :A
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Reminds me of that Royle Family Christmas special a few years ago... 'it's not about the golden egg cup!'.

    It's not actually about towel cakes. Although I must hold my hand up to being instrumental in that particular discussion. Sorry VK :o
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • harrys_nan
    harrys_nan Posts: 1,777 Forumite
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    I have just seen this thread and cannot believe some of the posters attitude on here.
    Not many people have the same taste in things, but I think the point has been made, you don't like bloody nappy cakes, I think we all get that now.
    Treat other's how you like to be treated.

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  • harrys_nan wrote: »
    I have just seen this thread and cannot believe some of the posters attitude on here.
    Not many people have the same taste in things, but I think the point has been made, you don't like bloody nappy cakes, I think we all get that now.

    No - the issue was about trying to find out what a friend would prefer rather than just give them what you think they might want.

    But we're past that now. ;)
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
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