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  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    Perhaps his lack of updates means that he getting help. Let's hope so.

    PP, thank you for your update. I hope your hurt fades soon, and that there is a good future for you, for the children and everyone else.

    I'd still like to see alpha back on here, or on a new thread.
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  • Well I last had an email from him 20 minutes ago so I'm pretty sure he is ok I can usually tell when he isn't purely by the way he writes.

    I just wish he could see that people do care and want to help and take the help that's offered :(
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    edited 8 January 2013 at 10:53PM
    When was Alpha last on here? It is always helpful to get the other side of the story to get a full perspective.

    However if Alpha felt he could tell his side of things and not have the whole situation made public, then the fact it now has been might be too much for him. We have been given a full, clear picture but there are revelations he may not have wanted us to know.

    He was clearly in an extremely fragile state of mind and hinted about not knowing how to carry on. I hope he will come back and seek the support and help everyone has been willing to give. Or that he decides to phone the crisis team and seek their help.
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