Where would you be if you married your first partner?

lemontart

I have no idea if we married first time around, 2nd time around possibly the states but sadly he is no longer alive so will never know anything other than he was the love of my life and I miss him with all my heart

kj*daisy

Widowed :-(
And he had a young family when he died, very sad.

coinxoperated

I would be the wife of a rather famous rock star.

Gutted!!!!!!!!!!!!

Violet8

I'd still be sat here but with a ring on. Still with first partner 9 years on (met at age 17/18), no intention to get married anytime soon though!

Mrs.W_2

I married my first boyfriend, so I'll shut up now.

mandragora_2

In a house in the Midlands, with him listing his occupation as a foster parent and with no idea he was on Friends Reunited propositioning other women - as he did me a few years ago.

I blanked him - he was a no-mark who broke my heart at 18 but who I'd totally forgotten about 30 years later. I feel very sorry for his wife.

When I didn't reply to his first two Friends Reunited messages, he sent me a third one begging to 'know what had happened' and 'how we'd broken up' and telling me he 'thought of me often' and 'still loved me'. So I replied to that one, told him what a b'stard he'd been then, and what a tw*t he was being now, and, if he really did ever have any feelings for me, to leave me alone, and do the right thing by his wife. Haven''t heard from him since, funnily enough.

poorly_scammo

Married to a man who now resembles Peter Sutcliffe. *shudder*

Nottoobadyet

Things would have been different - I probably wouldnt have ever lived overseas, as I have for the last 10 years or so, but he's a lovely guy and we probably could have had a good time of it.

thatlemming

This thread is really interesting.

I'd probably be bored out of my mind if I married the guy I dated at 16, he's not had a job thats lasted longer than 6 months since then, and he's currently living on a friend's couch. I probably wouldn't have been to uni as he always complained about my grades in relation to his. Yuck!

cymrumam

I would be married to a !!!!!phile - lucky escape !