Where would you be if you married your first partner?

harrys_nan

I did and I would probably be dead now, I got out quite quickly,

xoxo_2

I think i'd be a lot happier now than I am if i'd made it work with my first partner.

lika_86

Probably still waiting to spend a Valentines Day somewhere other than Pizza Hut.

Ironically I don't even care that much about Valentines with my current boyfriend, I think I just wanted my first boyfriend (for one day in the year) to actually take charge and plan something, not even something expensive/fancy, just something, he never did so we ended up at Pizza Hut every year.

First boyfriend is still (at the age of 27) living like a student though, penny pinching and doing student style jobs (and whingeing about it but never actually doing anything about it). He was an alright starter boyfriend but I'm glad I've found myself a real man since.

elmer

Id be in Antigua, he asked me to marry him as he was offered a job there, but as I would have had to do a course on "how to deal with servants" before we went,

I ran a mile!!!!

elmer x

marisco_2

I would be living a country bumpkin life with the village idiot :cool:

floss2

Quite well off with own business, living in a quaint seaside resort in Essex!

johno80

Mine was a bit of a goth - so I'd probably be wearing black and hanging out in dark clubs complaining about how nobody gets me

olibrofiz

living in hot and sunny Australia with a bloke that looked like a band member from ZZ top - shedload of kids, motorbike rennovations in the kitchen, BBQs on the beach, camping in the bush

To me, an infinately better lifestyle than the path I chose...

Tish_P

First partner as in lived together, I'm still with.

First boyfriend - ugh, there's a horible thought. He'd have pressured me into having kids young and scuppered my career, then probably when I could take no more of his boring, unpleasant personality we'd have had a messy, scarring divorce by the age of 25. So I imagine I'd be on my second marriage by now. Hopefully I'd have chosen someone better suited second time round!

I gather he's married now and hope he's happy, in the impersonal way I wish everyone happy who has nothing to do with me. Lucky escape for both of us.

SailorSam

We've remained friends and i think i made a mistake letting her go. We'd booked our holiday and then just a few weeks before we were to go she said she wasn't putting pressure on me to get married anytime soon but wanted to get engaged before the holiday or she wanted to finish it.
I went on holiday with a mate.