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Passive Aggressive - Emotionally Abusive Partner - Anyone else?

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  • I lurked on this thread and have to say 3way that you've done amazingly well following through on leaving him and getting your life back on track. I went through the same thing with my ex - who is now doing the same to another poor girl - and know how hard it can be to believe you're worth more than that. I'm sure your great progress will continue, and well done for setting a great example to everyone in your life!
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better." Paul Theroux
  • Just read this thread from start to finish, emotional isnt the word.

    I hope this new someone your ex has met is his match!

    You seem so positive & happy 3 way!

    I wish you all the luck & love in the world.

    Take care.

    JCG

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  • jayII
    jayII Posts: 40,693 Forumite
    That's fabulous news 3WayFreedom!

    It's so lovely to read how happy you are now and how well you've turned yours and your children's lives around. I'm sure you'll have a fantastic and very happy future together. :)
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  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    I am happy for the first time in years... scared but excited ... poor but emotionally rich ... and so looking forward to a lovely Spring and hot Summer filled with nice thoughts, kind words and good deeds.

    So good to hear from you and very pleased to know that life is gradually getting better. You sound so much happier and relaxed.

    I remember reading someones signature on here the other day and it made me smile 'If all you have is money, you are very poor'. So true and something you have clearly come to appreciate. Good on you OP. Your strength has enabled you to start afresh and build a happy life for yourself and your children. Something you should be very proud of.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • Bella73
    Bella73 Posts: 547 Forumite
    Hi 3way I've only just come across ths following your update.

    I was so sad when I read your first post and am so happy to read your update.

    It is fantastic that you are turning your life around. Go you!

    Bellax
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