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Feeling broken and no where near debt free. This is just the start.

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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    bexiboo92 wrote: »
    mmmmmmmmm.

    Mattessons?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • bexiboo92
    bexiboo92 Posts: 348 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    Mattessons?

    Mattessons??!?!?!?
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    bexiboo92 wrote: »
    Mattessons??!?!?!?

    *long* before your time - ask your parents... ;)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVvkRfKvH0Q
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • HeadAboveWater
    HeadAboveWater Posts: 3,941 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Once again, I agree with ZTD! 'Forever' when you're in school is a lot different than 'forever' when you're say in your 20's or 30's.

    I was with my ex for 6 years, from about age 20 to 26. Not once could I see myself marrying him, having kids with him or growing old with him. Nothing like that. Ever. Much as at the time I (stupidly!!) wanted to be with him, I think I always knew, deep down inside, it was never going to be permanent. It just took me a long time to admit that to myself and do what I had to do to keep myself happy.
    Wealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out
  • bexiboo92
    bexiboo92 Posts: 348 Forumite
    There's a very thin line between love and hate.

    You're in serious danger of crossing that line.
  • HeadAboveWater
    HeadAboveWater Posts: 3,941 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Very thin line. And to be honest it is better to get away before the line is crossed. Hate is a horrible emotion to have to deal with.
    Wealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out
  • Loopylou1
    Loopylou1 Posts: 152 Forumite
    Hey chick

    I've just found your thread and wanted to send you a hug :grouphug:

    People can tell you what they think but unfortunatley I've been where you are darling and I know it will take for you to see it yourself..but you will.

    Loves a hard thing to deal with.

    My nan use to say "men aren't worth crying about...and the one that is wont make you" - wise old bird my nan :D
    CC1...[STRIKE]£5,491.00[/STRIKE]£5,223.98....Loan 1..[STRIKE]£3,891.00[/STRIKE]£3670.84...
    CC2...£[STRIKE]415.00[/STRIKE] £395Mgment Co: [STRIKE]£1,398.00[/STRIKE]£1082.00
    [STRIKE]£11,195.00[/STRIKE] £10,371.79
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    S.A.D - and proud of it!!.... Paying a debt off by Xmas: CC2 :xmastree:
  • bexiboo92
    bexiboo92 Posts: 348 Forumite
    Loopylou1 wrote: »
    Hey chick

    I've just found your thread and wanted to send you a hug :grouphug:

    People can tell you what they think but unfortunatley I've been where you are darling and I know it will take for you to see it yourself..but you will.

    Loves a hard thing to deal with.

    My nan use to say "men aren't worth crying about...and the one that is wont make you" - wise old bird my nan :D

    Aha. Thank you.
    That made me smile!

    Just wish he'd stop screwing with my head :(
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    bexiboo92 wrote: »
    Just wish he'd stop screwing with my head :(

    He'll do that so long as it achieves things for him.

    :grouphug:
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Sambucus_Nigra
    Sambucus_Nigra Posts: 8,669 Forumite
    He will do that for as long as you let him!
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
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