Feeling broken and no where near debt free. This is just the start.

bexiboo92

Received another call from Mackenzie Hall today at WORK getting sick of their harassing, wish they'd accept the DMP offer.

ZTD

bexiboo92 wrote: »

Received another call from Mackenzie Hall today at WORK getting sick of their harassing, wish they'd accept the DMP offer.

They're just trying it on. PITA for you, but they will eventually get sorted. :grouphug:

bexiboo92

ZTD wrote: »

They're just trying it on. PITA for you, but they will eventually get sorted. :grouphug:

How do I stop them calling work?
I know I provided the number, but it was before we got a manager and it seems dodgy now when people call asking for me

ZTD

bexiboo92 wrote: »

How do I stop them calling work?
I know I provided the number, but it was before we got a manager and it seems dodgy now when people call asking for me

You tell them.

Read fermi's excellent thread on guidance/rights: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3558031

You want post 6 Communication - part 3.3) k

bexiboo92

ZTD wrote: »

You tell them.

Read fermi's excellent thread on guidance/rights: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3558031

You want post 6 Communication - part 3.3) k

Thanks.
I had asked them to remove the work number before now, but have repeated this point to them.

ZTD

bexiboo92 wrote: »

Thanks.
I had asked them to remove the work number before now, but have repeated this point to them.

Well if the ignore you again, put a complaint in and ask for compensation. Shy bairns get nowt...

bexiboo92

He just really doesn't get it does he.
How oblivious can one person get.

Going on about how we'll get someone to look after the dog if we go on holiday next year. Just no.

HeadAboveWater

Hey Bex

Quite a few posts since I was last on. And a lot of very good advice. Read ZTDs posts again and also tattycath and mumsiemum. They make a lot of sense and I also agree with them.

If it was the other way about and I was telling you about my relationship (;)!!), then I know what you'd say to me. I know you'd tell me I was worth more. I know you'd tell me I deserve better. What makes you any different? What makes you think that this is good enough for you?

I spent 6 years with my ex, feeling about an inch high 90% of the time. I did it before and I refuse to do it again. I don't deserve to be treated like crap, nor spoken to in a way that leaves me feeling inadequate, worthless or unappreciated.

You don't deserve it either Bex. Life is too short.

*hug*

ZTD

bexiboo92 wrote: »

He just really doesn't get it does he.
How oblivious can one person get.

"If I don't think about bad things then it won't happen. Nothing happens without me thinking about it for I am the centre of the Universe."

bexiboo92 wrote: »

Going on about how we'll get someone to look after the dog if we go on holiday next year. Just no.

That's some more debt he'll be expecting you to take on then.

Sambucus_Nigra

bexiboo92 wrote: »

He just really doesn't get it does he.
How oblivious can one person get.

Going on about how we'll get someone to look after the dog if we go on holiday next year. Just no.

Do you really think that one day he is just going to go 'ping' and lo and behold - he becomes a new man?

You are so young. Get out now. Before you look back and you are 10 years older and in much much deeper.