Opinions please..

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And what would he say if it was you who was going out with a male friend?

VikkiiKawaii

I haven't read your post but hands up I would feel VERY uncomfortable. I'm bad enough with longstanding female friends (baring in mind most of them are ex girlfriends).

daisiegg

My best friend from university is male and my fianc! has never met him. When I see my friend, it is just the two of us...we go on day trips, go out for dinner, go to the theatre, etc. There has NEVER been the slightest hint of anything romantic or sexual between us. My fianc! doesn't mind us going out alone together...

However...that is an old friend. I do think it would be different if it was someone new.

Fire_Fox

Most of my friends are guys and I continued to see them and even make a couple of new ones during my last relationship. Some of the time we'd meet in a group, sometimes alone, my ex was invited many times but never came out so I stopped bothering. He didn't much like it but that is me, I had also assured him that if any male friend ever crossed the line that would be the end of the one-to-one friendship and in one case it was. I have never cheated on anyone, emotionally or physically whereas my ex had.

daviecol

bitemebankers wrote: »

That's quite clearly nonsense though. One only has to go internet dating to see why. Back when I was dating online, I'd estimate that I fancied somewhere between 1 in 10 and 1 in 20 of the female matches the website offered to me. Talking to my female friends, this pretty much reflects their own experience too (if anything, they were even more picky than me.) So in reality, for most given male-female pairings, there won't be any physical attraction *either* way. Only in a relatively small minority - a few percent - will one party fancy the other. And only in a tiny minority will there be mutual attraction.

What's more, you've also made the assumption that everyone is straight, when in reality around one in ten people are gay/lesbian, like my best friend.

Like I said, I think you have a very narrow view of male-female relationships.

Possibly he does, but as a man I have to agree. I work with lots of women some of whom I fancy others I'm not fussed. But ultimately given the correct set of circumstances I'd put my penis in all of them. Some may see this as a rather terrible confession I call it being a human animal.

daviecol

daisiegg wrote: »

My best friend from university is male and my fianc! has never met him. When I see my friend, it is just the two of us...we go on day trips, go out for dinner, go to the theatre, etc. There has NEVER been the slightest hint of anything romantic or sexual between us. My fianc! doesn't mind us going out alone together...

However...that is an old friend. I do think it would be different if it was someone new.

Of course it is possible he's just hoping that something might happen at some point, I would bet a months wages he would love to put his penis in you.

System

daviecol wrote: »

Possibly he does, but as a man I have to agree. I work with lots of women some of whom I fancy others I'm not fussed. But ultimately given the correct set of circumstances I'd put my penis in all of them. Some may see this as a rather terrible confession I call it being a human animal.

Well at least your honest

daviecol

Judi wrote: »

Well at least your honest

Lol thanks. I've actually been happily married for over 20 years and have never been unfaithful. But I see it all the time, at the end of the day we are all just animals with clothes on!

Doris65_2

Hi,

I can only speak from personal experence, give him an inch an he will take a mile. Hes laughing at you, getting it all his own way and making you feel bad for making a fuss. he does not want you to go to the concert for a reason, that should tell you all you need to know, stand up for yourself, you will regret not doing so when you find out the truth about his 'special' freinds.

I dont mean to be blunt, but Ive been there and its a lonely place, you will drive yourself mad,

I feel for you,
Dx

bitemebankers

daviecol wrote: »

But ultimately given the correct set of circumstances I'd put my penis in all of them. Some may see this as a rather terrible confession I call it being a human animal.

Your honesty is commendable but you speak only for your yourself, not anyone else. Some of us are a lot more fussy.