Seeing my boyfriend

marleyboy

Try not to worry about finances too much, respect him for what he does for you and allow him to respect you for what you do for him. Its likely he would enjoy as much a walk in the park as he would a night on the town, so long as it is spent with you.

If he likes to treat you, allow him the pleasure of doing so. I am sure you would do likewise if you could and would not want him to feel insecure about it.

mum2one

Your mum sounds a lovely lady, things like washing, family meal, things you do as a family, I'm assuming he satys with you when he comes down to Cardiff, so think of it as a longer break.

I don't know the area (sorry) but have look at local papers for special offers, on-line, picnic, the little things that make the difference. xx

heretolearn_2

When you say leave little notes on his desk, did you mean at the hotel or at work?

DON'T do this at work.

Sambucus_Nigra

Cardiff_Girl wrote: »

Tonight he texts me saying work are sending him down for a month to start a new project in our office. and he will upgrade the room to a bigger one and I can stay with him for a whole month...
My mum says I should enjoy the month with him, but at the end seeing him go back on the train will rip me apart, I want the month to last but scared for the end. I know this is a jumbled mess. maybe someone can help me unjumble

a - do you WANT to stay the whole month with him? You don't have to just because he says so
b - you might be happy to see him back on the train after a month in a hotel room.

Cardiff_Girl_2

marleyboy wrote: »

Try not to worry about finances too much, respect him for what he does for you and allow him to respect you for what you do for him. Its likely he would enjoy as much a walk in the park as he would a night on the town, so long as it is spent with you.

If he likes to treat you, allow him the pleasure of doing so. I am sure you would do likewise if you could and would not want him to feel insecure about it.

I wouldn't want to make him feel insecure at all I know he doesn't mind. I am liking the park idea though.

mum2one wrote: »

Your mum sounds a lovely lady, things like washing, family meal, things you do as a family, I'm assuming he satys with you when he comes down to Cardiff, so think of it as a longer break.

I don't know the area (sorry) but have look at local papers for special offers, on-line, picnic, the little things that make the difference. xx

He usually does come round. This time his work are putting him in a hotel, He isn't sure yet as he hasn't got details yet.

I've been looking online, Just really puzzled at what to do.

heretolearn wrote: »

When you say leave little notes on his desk, did you mean at the hotel or at work?

DON'T do this at work.

I was thinking maybe both. Just like "Thank you " or something.

Do you think my colleagues would get jealous?

Sambucus_Nigra

Cardiff_Girl wrote: »

Do you think my colleagues would get jealous?

Do not do this at work - it's totally inappropriate.

Can I ask how old you both are and how long you have been seeing him?

Cardiff_Girl_2

Sambucus_Nigra wrote: »

a - do you WANT to stay the whole month with him? You don't have to just because he says so
b - you might be happy to see him back on the train after a month in a hotel room.

A) I REALLY do, He asked me if I wanted to. I immediately replied with yes!
When we have spent a week together I always feel rubbish when we leave each other. I miss him all the time :-(

Cardiff_Girl_2

Sambucus_Nigra wrote: »

Do not do this at work - it's totally inappropriate.

Can I ask how old you both are and how long you have been seeing him?

I am 21 and he is 25. We have been together since 5th July 2011 So about 14 months.

Idiophreak

Meh, surely there has to be some kinda long-term plan here?

You've been together more than a year, seem happy etc and life's too short to be apart from people that make you happy.

This month seems like a great chance to test-drive how the two of you cope with being together all the time...

Cardiff_Girl_2

Idiophreak wrote: »

Meh, surely there has to be some kinda long-term plan here?

You've been together more than a year, seem happy etc and life's too short to be apart from people that make you happy.

This month seems like a great chance to test-drive how the two of you cope with being together all the time...

We have been talking about moving together, This is down the line though. I am saving up to be able to.

My mum said the same about the test drive. I do get a bit panicy about it though.