Trying for a Baby Part 8

Elsie37

Hugs Becca. Hope you get some answers soon, must be so frustrating.

AFM not a lot to report, cd6 (which already seems like a long time getting here), got OH on different vitamins now in a hope to improve our situation. We shall see what happens.

TL - I love your PMA, always makes me feel better to have some PMA, makes things a lot easier and bearable.

xx

claire16c

becca0417 wrote: »

CD63....sigh

Becca I know you've got your pcos diagnosis but can't they give you something to bring on AF so you can at least start a new cycle?

Big hugs hun

amus

Hmm not sure whats going on with me.

I thought I hadnt ov this month but really soon after af had finished I was very slippery down below.

Today ive felt quite offish and my boobs are sore and veiny, just done an ic and its a tlp/evap?

Going to try again with fmu and see what happens!

TeamLowe

Will have my fingers crossed amus, please post a pic if it's positive, love pictures of positive tests! X x

lemonmelon_2

Fingers crossed amus :-) it always feels like a long wait until tomorrow morning when you're waiting to test!

coops228

CD1 for me. Sigh. Pass the wine n choccies!!!!

optimistic-mummy

an9i77 wrote: »

A question for you all - I can understand that it's totally inappropriate to ask people if they are going to have children/why they havent' got children etc BUT do you think it is inappropriate to ask someone you don't know very well if they've got children?

When I came back from maternity leave last year, so was naturally talking about my baby when I came back, there was a new girl who'd joined the team and I asked her if she had kids herself. She said 'oh no I'm not very maternal'.

I later found out that she had been TTC for two years and had fertility problems but just told everyone she wasn't maternal to avoid answering any questions.

If i'd had asked her if she wanted children, I would have understood this was inappropriate, but I felt really bad that she'd said that to me just from me asking if she had children.

So, particularly those who've been trying a while, was that inappropriate or do you think she was just being over sensitive?

its not a question i've ever asked anyone.... but i regularly get asked by ppl i know and don't know when we are going to have a 2nd or if we are going to and a lot of ppl auto assume we're not because we left it so long (LO's 4. he wasn't planned i was 16 when i had him) 6 yrs later me and DP are still going strong... stronger than ever ... the worst is when they ask our SON aged 4.... when you going have a brother or sister ... or its about time mummy and daddy let you have a sister or brother .... we waited till now because we were really young .... still are now and wanted to be financially more secure have or own place (we were living with DP's parents till LO was 12 months old) ... and we are still really young but it now feels the right time ... everything is finally falling into place ready for another child .... before we would have got through it if contraception would of failed again ... but we wouldn't of been ready like we are now ..... now feels like a perfect time (and i have thought through every little detail) ... if people ever do ask and they have asked since LO was around 6 months old :eek: if we are going to have more i have openly admitted i would love more but we are still young and atm its not the right time .... close family know and my best friend that we are TTC #2 and are happy for us, but tbh i don't ask ppl ..... i find ppl stick there nose in too much i've had ppl say its going to be too big of an age gap ... LO will get really jealous how are you going to cope with 2 when you are only used to having 1 for the last 4 years .... anything anyone can say negative or positive they do ... and tbh when we weren't ttc and ppl were saying negative stuff about not having another yet i used to tell them straight its our decision its us bringing them up and we will decide when the time is right .... i've felt really awkward at times when i've been honest with ppl and i think that's why i don't ask because i don't want them to feel the same .... plus tbh its there business not mine...

sorry for such a long post .... it pobabley doesn't even make sense

optimistic-mummy

sorry to hear cd1 coops .... xxxx

abis21

Pfffttttttt, a sneak facebook pregnancy that I didn't see coming has made me grumpy / crying / why is everyone fertile apart from me :mad::(:cry:

I swear they haven't even been together 5 minutes, let alone making babies!!! Obv this is an exaguration, but jeeeeez. I literally will end up with no friends on facebook if I keep deleting fertile people or hiding them from my newsfeed :o:o

Had my 7DPO bloods again today. Lets hope they confirm ov, but obv what I would really like is to be pregnant and not have to deal with going back to the doctors :o

vesper

Well thought that I would do some exercise tonight on my new treadmill as I know there's too much weight on me, and losing some may help ttc. Every time I start running though one of the blumming ferrets jumps on the back of the treadmill. So no exercise for me tonight, boo.