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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    edited 24 January 2013 at 7:30PM
    That's why I asked for the hammer :p
    But I don't thinks there's anything wrong with having optimism, doesn't change anything and it makes me happy to think that after eighteen months I may get pregnant again after my miscarriage, so if it makes me happy now then I'm going to carry on thinking it :) if by summer I'm not pregnant then oh well, I'll have tried something and be moving on to the next stage, which will probably be iui as my tubes are fine and DH is too x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • trina2010
    trina2010 Posts: 487 Forumite
    hello all! hugs to all, not just those in need :)
    congrats nic on the bfp!

    TL - i love your optimism, never lose it :) PMA all the way xx

    day 10 in the TTC cycle (big brother announcer style voice) nothing is happening. Mr A has twisted his ankle, and is acting like a man with a broken leg. Mrs A is unimpressed.
    good news though, we should be moving into our house soon :) yay, lots of work needing done, but itll be ours :)
    think i might drag hubby out for dinner to celebrate

    lots of love and PMA to you all xx

    Household 2 adults, 2 cats and baby boy (2.11.13)
    Married my wonderful husband on 2nd June 2012
    June GC: 0/300
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    TeamLowe wrote: »
    Clomid does increase the chances-'normal' couples have 25% each cycle, with Clomid it's 34% due to the increase in quality and quantity of eggs released. plus being monitored would mean you'd be able to know when follicles are ready to burst, the best way of detecting ovulation

    The three cycle thing has actually comforted me, in that if it doesn't work I can move quickly on to the next thing but also the stupid optimist in me thinks 'well if I get Clomid in March I could reasonably expect to be pregnant by summer'
    Does someone have a hammer to whack me with? Lol x x

    Big hugs jovie, hope you and DH have a lovely trip x x


    So what about if you just don't ever get in that 34% but because of luck not because it didn't make you ovulate well? How would you even know? I guess you wouldn't? Do the drs just kind of figure after 6 cycles chances are you will?

    God the entire thing depresses me that it's so hard to get pregnant.

    But I guess at least you know your chances on clomid are better than if you weren't on it.
  • Hopelass
    Hopelass Posts: 188 Forumite
    Hi Ladies

    3dpo here please Becca - you are doing a fantastic job on the lists :T

    Big hugs to all xx
    First baby due October 2013 :j
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    claire16c wrote: »
    So what about if you just don't ever get in that 34% but because of luck not because it didn't make you ovulate well? How would you even know? I guess you wouldn't? Do the drs just kind of figure after 6 cycles chances are you will?

    God the entire thing depresses me that it's so hard to get pregnant.

    But I guess at least you know your chances on clomid are better than if you weren't on it.

    I think it depends on your doctor and how you're reacting to it, but you might need your dose changing, from but from what y've been told by others who have had fertility treatment the next step is IUI, which usually involves ovulation induction too x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • an9i77
    an9i77 Posts: 1,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Claire - I guess you can tell if you are in the 66% that didn't because they can test to see if you ovulate, so if you ovulate but don't get pregnant I think that's where the luck element comes in. Of course, a few of those 66% will have other problems that prevent the egg implanting, or early miscarriage or whatever, but at least you can rule ovulation out if the clomid makes you ovulate.

    Personally i'm hoping that if I can lose my excess weight before the clomid runs out I won't need any more clomid. Then again i'm not sure I needed it in the first place as my doctor put me on it after only one cycle of TTC.

    My step mum went to see a fortune teller who said there'd be news of a new baby in the family in spring. Now my older two brothers don't want any more and my younger brother is single and has been for years. There's an outside chance that one of those could find themselves a father by accident, but I'd like to think that that spring pregnancy announcement will be mine -and it's not spring yet -so let's hope that it is my baby on it's way!
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Testing List

    January graduates
    -Winner of December BFP predictions: ME!! (Well nearly ;) I was only one off and the closest!)
    Let's have a few more for January please!

    welsh_cosmic - 14th January
    bride2be2012 - 18th January
    head_in_clouds - 20th January
    cozza123 - 22nd January
    nicp60 - 23rd January

    January BFP predictions
    katy - 4
    i love holidays - 4
    firefly - 5
    vic - 5
    vesper - 5
    elsie - 5
    miffy - 5
    TCD - 5
    becca0417 - 6
    amus - 6
    claire - 6
    Birdie - 6
    Mrs_T_M - 6
    kellykins - 6
    Angeltreats - 6
    Good vibes - 7
    maire - 7
    purcy - 7
    amy_85 - 8
    tinks - 8
    abis - 9

    Thread Graduates:
    Hopefor3 BFP 08/11/12
    Anderson BFP 13/11/12
    Lao_Cat BFP 07/12/12
    Rumfeeble BFP 10/12/12
    Metranil Vavin BFP 15/12/12
    NoAngel BFP 29/12/12
    welsh_cosmic BFP 14/01/13
    cozza123 BFP 22/01/13
    nicp60 BFP 23/01/13
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Two week Wait (January BFP Hopefuls)
    CD99 littleme - 85DPO:cool:
    CD96 g1rlyg1rl - 80DPO :cool:
    CD64 RazWaz - 47DPO :cool:
    CD57 Leopardlady-41DPO :cool:
    CD35 pinkfluffythings - 20DPO :cool:
    CD36 apple*pie – 20DPO :cool:
    CD33 Angeltreats*- 14DPO :cool:
    CD28 an9i77 – 14DPO :cool:
    CD30 nessie216 - 12DPO :cool:
    CD26 i love holidays- 11DPO :cool:
    CD35 Claire16c - 10DPO :cool:
    CD26 chocoholic_chic - 9DPO :cool:
    CD22 Birdie85* - 8DPO :cool:
    CD29 Abis21*- 7DPO :cool:
    CD21 Katy29 - 4DPO :cool:
    CD28 Purcy – 3DPO :cool:
    CD17 Hopelass - 3DPO :cool:
    CD18 Loulou123 - 2DPO :cool:
    CD18 lilymay*- 1DPO :cool:
    CD16 Toothfairy - 1DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone (January BD-ers)
    CD92 abailey- Awaiting ov :o
    CD71 Beautybutterfly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD67 Marie – Awaiting ov :o
    CD63 becca0417* – Awaiting ov :o
    CD61 Sidney88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD50 TeamLowe– Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 squ1rrel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 Sazamataz- Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 kte* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 amus - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 credit_crunch - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Tealover– Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 vic3* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Thriftylass - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Kellykins - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 COMP*- Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 lilmissmup- Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 teaandcakeordeath - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 atton - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Trina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Optimistic mummy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 firefly369- Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Codemonkey - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 emylou* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 MiffyMoo* - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD7 maire - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Mrs_T_M - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Goodvibes - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 PommeVerte - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 G3mmo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Skaps* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Elsie37- Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Amy_85 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 Vesper - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Lara44 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 jovie - Awaiting ov :o

    Fannyanna's own special list
    CD? Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This threadis all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    CD63....sigh :(
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    Deary me becca, I thought I had reason to feel sorry for myself but you have it the worst :(

    Hope ovulation is soon for you, or those nice doctors sort you out with A Plan. The ladies on the twelve month thread will tell you I love people having their Plan, I think it makes everything more bearable x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
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