Trying for a Baby Part 8

TeamLowe

...i bet normal people don't have a favourite brand of pregnancy test to see positive results on...

Metranil_Vavin

My fave is First Response too TL. I know exactly what you mean!

nessie216

TeamLowe wrote: »

ooh i can see it now on the link!
deffo positive, get a digi to show us as well! or a first response, i like them too x x

Isn't supposed to be darker though?

If it is a + will it get darker over the new few days?

skintchick

nessie216 wrote: »

Isn't supposed to be darker though?

If it is a + will it get darker over the new few days?

It will get darker yes but they usually are faint at first and some tests are always faint. Get a digi to see it in words but that looks proper positive to me!!!!!!

claire16c

There's definitely a line there!

claire16c

TeamLowe wrote: »

c'mon amus and nessie, give us those positive test results

really miffed at DH but don't want to make the situation worse...the only time he can't complete is when he's too tired. and last night he stayed up late with his friends, he was under strict orders to perform his husbandly duties when he got home but he couldn't complete. and my temperature has shifted. ggggggrrrrrrrgggggggggrrrrrrrgggggggggrrrrrr. we'll do it tonight i guess and hope that two days before (if the o word was yesterday) and the day after is enough.

it's so fricking hard when you have a long and irregular to make sure you BD at the right time without wearing out DH, especially mine who is so unfit these days. when we first met, a little tmi, but we was having it off twice a night on weeknights! now two days in a row exhausts him x x

i know i should be pleased that i have (if i have) and at least it was only two day old sperm and not, two week old sperm that was waiting if she made her appearance

2 days is perfect youre definitely in with a shot. The same thing happened to my DH the month I got pregnant, we had to try again later on in the evening & thankfully it worked! It's so frustrating. It had never even happened to him before.

nessie216

TeamLowe wrote: »

c'mon amus and nessie, give us those positive test results

really miffed at DH but don't want to make the situation worse...the only time he can't complete is when he's too tired. and last night he stayed up late with his friends, he was under strict orders to perform his husbandly duties when he got home but he couldn't complete. and my temperature has shifted. ggggggrrrrrrrgggggggggrrrrrrrgggggggggrrrrrr. we'll do it tonight i guess and hope that two days before (if the o word was yesterday) and the day after is enough.

it's so fricking hard when you have a long and irregular to make sure you BD at the right time without wearing out DH, especially mine who is so unfit these days. when we first met, a little tmi, but we was having it off twice a night on weeknights! now two days in a row exhausts him x x

i know i should be pleased that i have (if i have) and at least it was only two day old sperm and not, two week old sperm that was waiting if she made her appearance

If it makes you feel better - i BD 2 days before O and the day after

skintchick

Sperm can live for up to 7 days so bd before ov is perfect. Some people say the boy sperm die quicker so the longer they're in there the more likely it is you'll have a girl. Probably a load of rubbish though.

Birdie85

We only BD once at the 'right' time this cycle... really hope the timing was right!

Saying that, AF must be on the horizon as I'm bloating up like a balloon, so uncomfortable! At least I get to see what I'll look like at 4 months PG.

claire16c

Feeling really carpy today. We're going for a long weekend at my friends house, she lives about 2.5 hours away so I don't get to see her much. Our parents are also friends so were all going together. We're staying at her parents who also live that way, as she's just had a baby two months ago so not much room in her house/ crying at night etc, but that's fine. I don't want to cancel because although I still feel really sad after the mc I don't want to miss out on not seeing the baby any longer.

We were all going for a meal tonight but now her mum has just text me to say she's tied up so it will be just me DH and the 4 parents. This then set me off crying because I'm thinking well she's either had someone else commandeer her at the last minute - she can never say no to anyone apart from me it seems I think because we know each other so well or she doesn't want to bring the baby to a restaurant which I completely understand but I figure they're not telling me this incase it up sets me. So now I jus feel annoyed and wondering why I'm bothering to travel all that way if I will only get to see her tomorrow and probably part of Sunday before we leave.

Hmm as typing this her mum has text to say my friebd has got a work colleague coming over who often over stays her welcome! Well tell her you're going out & sorry but they have to leave! how is that any different to saying to me she cant come? and the baby has a cold, ok that's fair enough. Just wish people would not make up excuses just makes me feel even worse.

Plus to rub salt in the wound feel like AF is coming really worried it will be bad whilst were there and that always gives me a bad stomach. Can't believe it's coming this weekend!

Hope everyone else has a better Friday!!