Trying for a Baby Part 8

claire16c

skintchick wrote: »

Yes it was my third miscarriage. I actually knew before then, just had a feeling something had gone wrong, but everyone else told me I wa sbeing silly and then we went for the scan and it had died at the exact time that I started saying I thought something had happened.

I knew with the first three, the fourth was a chemical so I had no time to know anything, and the fifth one I just started spotting unexpectedly at 10 weeks.

The worst way to find out was at the scan. That was just awful.

But yes, chance for most people who are not me is that it won't happen again! I'm just very unlucky to have a blood clotting disorder

I felt that something was wrong too, and people kept saying oh how exciting its your scan don't worry everything will be fine, and I was thinking but it might not be stop saying that! I thought something was wrong because my sickness improved but I had read it was normal fir that to happen at 9-10 weeks so ill never know if it was a coincidence or not. I just felt like something wasn't right.

So when you get pregnant again do you have to take medicine / get an injection or something?

claire16c

Congratulations bride to be!

Hi mince pie monster! I LOVE mince pies!

We've had several inches of snow today so no work!

head_in_clouds

becca0417 wrote: »

Birdie - great news about your scan/results. Are you going to see what happens over the next few months? Hope Tuesdays BD did the job for you

Skint - would love to join you but unfortunately there is no end in sight with this cycle so goodness knows where I'm going to be at Valentines

abis - I had bloods done but they didn't show if I'd ovulated as it was at the end of a very long cycle (70+ days) so when I go and get my results tomorrow I am going to ask for Day 21 bloods. Hope you are OK x

Welcome chocoholic_chick - do you want to be added to the list? If so what Cycle Day are you on?

Amy hope you feel better soon lovely, how horrible for you at work. Love to you x

head_in_clouds - welcome to you too would you like to be added to the list?

Lily I've had the same issue re IC and CB opks before. Are they different sensitivities?

Nessie & emylou - welcome I've added you to the lists also.

Not much happening with me, just waiting for my Drs appointment for scan results.

I would love to be added, i am 11 dpo xx

head_in_clouds

Congratulations bride2be, sprinkle some of that baby dust over here before you hop over to the next forum stage in your journey:j
Well it has been a fabulous snowy day here, but couldnt really enjoy it as i have a awful bladder infection. When i went to the docs he asked me if i was pregnant about ten times, and even when i explained it was too early to tell and told him when i ovulated, he still insisted on doing a test, which of course was a bfn

Oh well wheat bag and cranberry juice for me - exciting times lol:rotfl:
Hope everyone has a fab weekend xx

amus

skintchick wrote: »

Yes it was my third miscarriage. I actually knew before then, just had a feeling something had gone wrong, but everyone else told me I wa sbeing silly and then we went for the scan and it had died at the exact time that I started saying I thought something had happened.

I knew with the first three, the fourth was a chemical so I had no time to know anything, and the fifth one I just started spotting unexpectedly at 10 weeks.

The worst way to find out was at the scan. That was just awful.

But yes, chance for most people who are not me is that it won't happen again! I'm just very unlucky to have a blood clotting disorder

Its strange isnt it, ive had two mc and two healthy pg and both times I mc I just knew something was off, whereas when I was pg with my 2 boys I just never got that feeling.

becca0417

Testing List
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January graduates
-Winner of December BFP predictions: ME!! (Well nearly I was only one off and the closest!)
Let's have a few more for January please!

welsh_cosmic - 14th January

December BFP predictions
katy - 4
firefly - 5
vic - 5
vesper - 5
elsie - 5
miffy - 5
TCD - 5
becca0417 - 6
amus - 6
claire - 6
Birdie - 6
Mrs_T_M - 6
kellykins - 6
Angeltreats - 6
Good vibes - 7
maire - 7
purcy - 7
amy_85 - 8
tinks - 8
abis - 9

Thread Graduates:
Hopefor3 BFP 08/11/12
Anderson BFP 13/11/12
Lao_Cat BFP 07/12/12
Rumfeeble BFP 10/12/12
Metranil Vavin BFP 15/12/12
NoAngel BFP 29/12/12
welsh_cosmic BFP 14/01/13

maire1

amus wrote: »

Its strange isnt it, ive had two mc and two healthy pg and both times I mc I just knew something was off, whereas when I was pg with my 2 boys I just never got that feeling.

I definitely knew with my last mc too. There was one day where I just couldn't settle and knew things weren't right. When I had my scan, the dates when they thought baby's heart stopped marched that weird feeling day exactly.

skintchick

amus wrote: »

Its strange isnt it, ive had two mc and two healthy pg and both times I mc I just knew something was off, whereas when I was pg with my 2 boys I just never got that feeling.

I think most women are in tune with their bodies and they do know if something is wrong. I think fear overrode things with DD and I never felt relaxed and happy about the pregnancy because of having lost the first pregnancy.

And now I think I will never ever relax again! But I will get early scans next time every two weeks from finding out so I will at least have some monitoring.

claire16c wrote: »

I felt that something was wrong too, and people kept saying oh how exciting its your scan don't worry everything will be fine, and I was thinking but it might not be stop saying that! I thought something was wrong because my sickness improved but I had read it was normal fir that to happen at 9-10 weeks so ill never know if it was a coincidence or not. I just felt like something wasn't right.

So when you get pregnant again do you have to take medicine / get an injection or something?

Yes, I will inject heparin daily till about 6 weeks after I give birth.

I saved some heparin shots from my recent surgery so that when I get PG again I have some to take immediately. Bit naughty really but I know how to inject it in my tummy and it is the right dose.

That *should* make it OK assuming there are no other issues. It certainly increases my chances anyway, to 95 per cent from my own stat of 16 per cent. A MUCH better percentage.

becca0417

Two week Wait (January BFP Hopefuls)
CD93 littleme - 79DPO:cool:
CD90 g1rlyg1rl - 74DPO :cool:
CD123 benhope - 57DPO :cool:
CD58 RazWaz - 41DPO :cool:
CD51 Leopardlady-35DPO :cool:
CD29 pinkfluffythings - 14DPO :cool:
CD30 apple*pie – 14DPO :cool:
CD27 Goodvibes - 13DPO :cool:
CD31 Vesper - 13DPO :cool:
CD?? head_in_clouds -11DPO :cool:
CD29 Elsie37- 10DPO :cool:
CD22 Tinkwings - 10DPO :cool:
CD24 Bigzippy - 9/10DPO :cool:
CD41 amyloofoo - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 Cozza123 - 9DPO :cool:
CD27 Angeltreats*- 8DPO :cool:
CD22 an9i77 – 8DPO :cool:
CD24 jovie - 7DPO :cool:
CD28 Nicp60* - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 nessie216 - 6DPO :cool:
CD29 Claire16c - 4DPO :cool:
CD16 Birdie85* - 2DPO :cool:

"If in doubt - BD" Zone (January BD-ers)
CD166 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov
CD163 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD143 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov
CD110 JoJoB - Awaiting ov
CD94 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD94 coops228 - Awaiting ov
CD86 abailey- Awaiting ov
CD82 i love holidays- Awaiting ov
CD73 Toothfairy - Awaiting ov
CD65 Beautybutterfly - Awaiting ov
CD61 Marie – Awaiting ov
CD57 becca0417* – Awaiting ov
CD55 Sidney88 - Awaiting ov
CD44 TeamLowe– Awaiting ov
CD39 welsh_cosmic - Awaiting ov
CD30 Lara44 - Awaiting ov
CD29 MrsHappy- Awaiting ov
CD26 Amy_85 - Awaiting ov
CD26 Skaps* - Awaiting ov
CD25 squ1rrel - Awaiting ov
CD23 Abis21*- Awaiting ov
CD22 Purcy – Awaiting ov
CD21 Sazamataz- Awaiting ov
CD20 kte* - Awaiting ov
CD17 amus - Awaiting ov
CD17 credit_crunch - Awaiting ov
CD15 Katy29 - Awaiting ov
CD14 Tealover– Awaiting ov
CD12 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD12 lilymay*- Awaiting ov
CD11 Hopelass - Awaiting ov
CD10 Thriftylass - Awaiting ov
CD10vic3* - Awaiting ov
CD9 Kellykins - Awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD8COMP*- Awaiting ov
CD6Lilmissmup- Awaiting ov
CD6lemonmelon - Awaiting ov
CD5teaandcakeordeath - Awaiting ov
CD5atton - Awaiting ov
CD4 Trina - Awaiting ov
CD3 Optimistic mummy - Awaiting ov
CD3 firefly369- Awaiting ov
CD3 Codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD3 emylou* - Awaiting ov
CD3 MiffyMoo* - Awaiting ov
CD1 maire - Awaiting ov
CD1 Mrs_T_M - Awaiting ov
CD1 Skintchick -Awaiting ov

Fannyanna's own special list
CD? Fannyanna - Awaiting ov

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becca0417

No massive post from me today other than list updating as I've had my scan results. PCOS and quite badly on my right side, not sure about left. My Dr is hoping to refer me to the fertility specialist but not sure if she can because the criteria is TTC for 2 years.