Trying for a Baby Part 8

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tinkwings wrote: »

Just been let out of hopital have lost the baby. Had to stay in overnight :-( xxx

lilymay1 wrote: »

I am so sorry Tinks. I just came on here to find out how you were before I go to Sheffield to see my daughters grave. I feel very depressed now - that is not what I was wanting to hear from you

There isn't anything anyone can say, but please know we are all thinking about you. Take care of yourself and go and give DD's a massive massive hug. I will be thinking of you xxxxxxx

Thinking of you both at difficult times.

angeltreats

Really really sorry Tinks, I was so hoping everything would be ok. Sending you lots of love.

The friend I was talking about has never temped, used opks etc, as far as I know she just works out by the dates (midway through her cycle) when she is likely to ov. She has spoken to a doctor who said that the first thing to do is to have her OH's sperm tested but he hasn't got off his backside and sorted it out, and she "doesn't want to nag him" - this was probably almost a year ago now. She has been pregnant twice before by her ex (unfortunately miscarried both times) so thinks the problem is probably him. I don't think I will buy her the book, but might borrow it from the library again and "happen" to have it with me while I'm visiting her and let her have a look to see what she thinks.

For any ladies thinking about buying/reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility, I don't think it would really offer much new information to people who are already used to temping, monitoring CM etc. It is very good though.

Lily_The_Legend

Thinking of you too Lilymay xxx

Gemmzie

Lily_The_Legend wrote: »

Hugs Gemmzie. How long will you have to wait do you think?

Until my stupid body decides to wake up and ovulate Drs said I have to wait until December before they can do anything

So sorry to hear your news tinks - be kind to yourself this weekend xx

TeamLowe

Huge hugs Tinks, wish I could make it nt true or hurt less
Thinking if you lilymay x x

becca0417

Tinks - sending you love and hugs, thinking of you xxxx

Lily_The_Legend

Gemmzie wrote: »

Until my stupid body decides to wake up and ovulate Drs said I have to wait until December before they can do anything

Such a frustrating business when you're waiting to ttc and ttc too. So much waiting to be done. (((Hugs))) Gemmzie xxx

squ1rrel5

Am 11dpo and only went and did a stupid test... bfn of course! I am so rubbish at waiting.
I googled pictures of tests at 11dpo and thought 'oooh some of them have super lines on, perhaps I will get one!' - I know I'm not out until AF shows up but I'm not holding out hope. Never mind.... I will have to wait until Monday to test again anyway as I used the last test and I wont get a chance to get one tomorrow.

JoJoB

Gutted to hear your news tink, take good care of yourself. Not been posting much as lost the ttc mojo a bit but still popping back in occasionally to check field bfps.

My 4 year old finally started school last week so definitely got a touch of empty nest syndrome going on.

claire16c

angeltreats wrote: »

Really really sorry Tinks, I was so hoping everything would be ok. Sending you lots of love.

The friend I was talking about has never temped, used opks etc, as far as I know she just works out by the dates (midway through her cycle) when she is likely to ov. She has spoken to a doctor who said that the first thing to do is to have her OH's sperm tested but he hasn't got off his backside and sorted it out, and she "doesn't want to nag him" - this was probably almost a year ago now. She has been pregnant twice before by her ex (unfortunately miscarried both times) so thinks the problem is probably him. I don't think I will buy her the book, but might borrow it from the library again and "happen" to have it with me while I'm visiting her and let her have a look to see what she thinks.

For any ladies thinking about buying/reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility, I don't think it would really offer much new information to people who are already used to temping, monitoring CM etc. It is very good though.

Maybe shes working it out wrong, or like you said the problem is with her DH. You could always suggest opks etc to her.

If I was her I wouldnt be worried about 'nagging'. Does her DH actually want a baby? 3 years is a long time to have nothing happen and not have a conversation about it. And then to be worried about having the conversation! Poor her.