Trying for a Baby Part 8

lilymay1

tinkwings wrote: »

Just been let out of hopital have lost the baby. Had to stay in overnight :-( xxx

I am so sorry Tinks. I just came on here to find out how you were before I go to Sheffield to see my daughters grave. I feel very depressed now - that is not what I was wanting to hear from you

There isn't anything anyone can say, but please know we are all thinking about you. Take care of yourself and go and give DD's a massive massive hug. I will be thinking of you xxxxxxx

mrsj28

LilyMay - just want to say I'm thinking of you this weekend. Can't even begin to imagine how tough it must be. Sending love and hugs xx

firefly369

Tinks - :(so so sorry for your loss xx:(

Angeltreats - I think many women have different attitiudes to ttc. Perhaps your best approach is simply to ask your friend if she prefers the more relaxed approach or whether she is looking for some kind of control/information. She will let you know by her answer if it is something she wants you to know. Although I would say that it is unusual for someone to have been trying for 3 years and not to have visited the docs by now. OH and I are just starting to undergo fertility tests and investigations and we don't discuss it in real life with anyone we know. If people ask about when we are starting a family we change the subject or say something vague that in no way gives a clue as to the frustation or struggle we are having starting a family of our own. Its private and neither of us wants to share it.

LTL - its still early. Show ain't over till the witch shows up. Fingers crossed.

Codemonkey - Are your normal af cramps that severe?

amyloofoo

tinkwings wrote: »

Just been let out of hopital have lost the baby. Had to stay in overnight :-( xxx

Oh Tink, I'm so sorry. Saw your thing on Facebook and was desperately hoping it wasn't this Big hugs to you and your family, please take care of yourself and know that we're all here for you whenever you need us

Amy xx

codemonkey

Lilymay, thinking of you today. Hugs.

firefly, it was a weird one. My cramps are normally quite severe but never actually pitch me forward. This one was like an AF cramp that pushed my upper body forward so much so that it put me off balance. It wasnt like a massively painful thing, more like someone pushed me during a mild cramp. Weird.

squ1rrel5

angeltreats wrote: »

Squ1rrel - thanks for updating, you're braver than me! I'm actually 4DPO sorry should have said.

Thanks Angeltreats, I have updated the list and put it right

Tinks, I am so sorry to hear your news, I don't have many words for you right now that will make anything better - please take it easy and we are all here for you when you are ready xx

bigzippy

tinkwings wrote: »

Just been let out of hopital have lost the baby. Had to stay in overnight :-( xxx

Sorry to hear this tink


*relurks*

minimuffin12

So sorry to hear your news tinks, was following your other thread yesterday. Big hugs to you and your dh.xx

claire16c

So sad to hear that Tinks

apple*pie

So sorry to hear your sad news Tink. Thinking of you. Look after yourself xx