Trying for a Baby Part 8

becca0417

Glad it went well squirrel - enjoy your non-alcoholic wine!
I'm just waiting for hubs to get in as tea is on.

Got ov pains but no + OPK yet? Weird body!

tinkwings

SORRY :o:o

Someone slap me please I have never been more terrified in my life ................................................Why is it easier to think the worst?????

TeamLowe

Tinkwings, i don't know but I know what you mean, once bitten twice shy and all that
BUT it won't happen again, you have a forever baby in there and should be enjoying that, tomorrow night you'll be on top of the world

Abis I avoided him all day and he didn't speak to me. Hope he's forgot about and was just in a mood on Friday as his actual bum chum was away with his fianc!e (honest to god I'd write more about that situation but I genuinely worry it would be part of a tribunal one day)

Gemmzie things weren't great between me and sister during her pregnancy, she pulled away from me as she felt sort of guilty I suppose, mum said she felt awful that it was her having a baby and not me. But we've really bonded over my niece. And it's helped my baby wanting, I love her like my own, she's amazing. Like actually amazing-she doesn't like being burped so does fake ones! But you can tell which ones are real cos they're massive, worse than DH's :rotfl: x x

onlywayisup_2

Thank u all. See you soon.x

mrsj28

Tinks - I'll never slap you!! But I will send a massive hug and tell you you are very much in my thoughts and prayers for tomorrow. It is only natural for you to be worried and thinking the worst after losses xxxxxx

Metranil_Vavin

Does anyone else have trouble with the whole pressure of DTD to order?

Finding it really hard this month and I think we're going to struggle :(:(

mrsj28

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Does anyone else have trouble with the whole pressure of DTD to order?

Finding it really hard this month and I think we're going to struggle :(:(

MV - absolutely It's been a real pressure for us almost right since the start of ttc. My DH hates feeling under pressure to perform, and more often than not we end up arguing because I'm trying to seduce him because I found some ewcm, and he doesn't want to, or he does but then can't..ahem..complete... And it feels like something we shouldn't find difficult. Never had any problems in that department when not ttc!

Now we try to just DTD every few days so we have all bases covered. BUT if I left that up to DH to remember/initiate we'd be lucky if we managed every few months And I get all panicky if we don't have 'enough' around the right time

You are definitely not alone in it. Massive hugs!

Metranil_Vavin

Thanks..I am feeling so down this evening.

We don't tend to DTD that much anyway these days, so even trying to do it 3 times in the ov week is challenging.

I still haven't had a smiley on my ov sticks yet, but had some EWCM from saturday, so thought if we tried to DTD every couple of days we may get lucky. Tried to this evening, but it ended up not happening IFYKWIM. OH depressed, me in tears..I feel so desperate to do everything we can to get pregnant again, I think I'm going a bit crazy

I hate the whole pressure of ttc, but if we didn't push ourselves we'd never ever get pregnant. I'm so aware of my age and time marching on.

Sorry for the whinge. Just haven't got anyone to talk to. Tried talking to OH earlier but he said it's just heaping more and more pressure on him.

I really wish you could just take a pill and get pregnant, honestly I hate having to rely on someone else!

Metranil_Vavin

I so wish last months BFP could have been sticky

Courgette

Big hugs MV. You've got lots of time yet xxxxx