Trying for a Baby Part 8

PommeVerte

Abis, do you have anyone else that knows about what happened that you could call for a chat? Or send your friend a text and arrange to chat tomorrow? And keep chatting to us, it's important to get feelings out, whether they're spoken or written !

PommeVerte

Hmmm is cm a symptom ? That is the question.

Next week there are loads of testers !! Lilymay - how's the PMA ? Your post about this month being YOUR month was what encouraged me to post for the first time, you just sounded so happy, i pictured you with a determined look on your face marching your OH up those stairs.

lilymay1

PommeVerte wrote: »

i pictured you with a determined look on your face marching your OH up those stairs.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

P.S - PMA is still great Increased CM can be a symptom of AF and PG so not a great one to go off!

Abis, massive hugs. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

Gemmzie

becca0417 wrote: »

Aww gem xx how are you doing?

Thanks qq, sounds like you are a cbfm expert!

Fingers crossed for all those ladies on 2ww xx

Not so good, officially we aren't supposed to TTC at the moment as I'm waiting for a referral for surgery, which can be done safely as long as I'm over 12 weeks I believe so we're torn between playing it safe and waiting, and carrying on trying so that I'm closer to 12 weeks when the referral arrives. Tough decisions.
OV is due next week (hopefully!) so I guess we'll see if we can both come to a decision then.

abis21

Thanks Ladies. No not really PommeVerte (which I translated as green apple via google ) All my 'main' people are otherwise occupied right now. Can't bother my mum cos she will have just got back from visiting my grandad. DH will be home in an hour or so. Am just sat here like a lemon in the meantime not really knowing what to do with myself and having an ocassional sob cos I feel sorry for myself Stupid really. Am not normally like this. Just feel a bit lonely I guess

PommeVerte

Having a sob can be wonderfully therapeutic sometimes, go for it i say. Did you know that tears actually contain toxins produced when you're stressed/sad, and just getting those toxins out of your body does you good. I'm all on my own tonight too, so you're not completely alone !

mrsj28

Hi ladies :wave: am loving the PMA on the thread at the moment - fingers crossed for lots of BFPs soon! But no SSing...naughty....!!

We had another unprotected BD last night... we are not doing very well at not trying...I think part of the problem is that it took quite a while for me to get pregnant in the first place so we a) don't expect it to happen quickly again and b) don't want to pass up an opportunity [STRIKE]and c) DH hates using condoms!!![/STRIKE] I know they suggest waiting one cycle before trying after a miscarriage, but as I understand this is purely for dating purposes (and to avoid the associated stress with thinking you are a certain number of weeks but actually being less/more). Does anybody know if there is any other reason we should wait? No EWCM or anything yet, and I'm normally a late OV-er, so if there are any risks then we'll start behaving!

Abis - sending more big hugs! Make sure DH gives you a big cuddle when he gets in.

Gemmzie - it's a tricky one, hope you and DH come to a decision you are both happy with. ((hugs))

Maire - in the nicest possible way, welcome back Here's to a BFP and a sticky bean for you soon

Welcome any newbies :wave: wishing you a short and sweet stay!

abis21

PV - I'm not used to being on my own these days. I normally have either DD or DH here for company - even if DD is sleeping... Just being a miserable sausage today. Hopefully I will be all fixed of miserablitis in time for the weekend. I cry at everything so I should be the leasy stressed/sad person out there :rotfl:

MrsJ - No, there is no medical reason for you not to try again, specially as you have had a negative pregnancy test already. I'd just go for it if I were you. I bloomin hated using condoms for 10 weeks til I got my normal result. It just seemed totally crazy to prevent the one thing I wanted the most. And me and DH are not fans of them either! Bit of a passion killer especially when you can't find one / get in to one when you >really< want to :rotfl: I know DH will give me a lovely big hug soon. Might just have to take my miserable chops up to bed soon tho.

We don't have any weekend plans, and I don't think that helps sometimes. I like to have a little something coming up to look forward to, but I think it will end up being a weekend of jobs which is not exactly cheering. Ooof, just ignore my gloominess. Am sure I will find some PMA and cheerfulness soon

mrsj28

Right, that's it - Abis, thank you for the green light

Back on the ttc wagon then

(Oh my life, what has happened to me, I am so desperate for a baby that I will take advice from somebody I've never met on an internet forum..........rather than the advice I was given from the actual nurse that I met in person last week...........)

Although Abis I should say that I do kind of 'know' you And for some reason I always want to call you Abis and not Abi, even though you told us a while ago your name is Abi (......don't let me get started on the username discussion again :rotfl:)

abis21

Haha, I give good advice tho I do

Sara-ra-ra got pregnant with her forever baby the cycle after a miscarriage. Lots of people do.

The molar lady told me I was ok to try again after a "run of normal results" and didn't have to wait 6 months - and even tho that was entirely not what I had read anywhere else, I still am going with her advice as thats what I wanted to hear. And besides, she actually >is< medically trained :rotfl: (I took a run of normal results to mean 2 tho - which I don't think was quite what she had in mind :rotfl:)

Feel free to call me abis, abs, abi, whatever really :rotfl: I feel like I know you too Mrs(not)J(not)28 :cool:

Am feeling a bit chirpier again now. Thank you. Think I have had a good moan, and maybe even stopped sobbing for now. You really are such lovely ladies :A If I could buy you all a chocolate orange I would :beer: