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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • RazWaz
    RazWaz Posts: 1,070 Forumite
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    Could you put me down for testing on the 19th this month please QQ :) going to not test early after last month.
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Birdie, can't you get the SA pot for him to do at home? That's what I did.

    The doctor told me that we had to 'produce the sample' at home then take it through to the hospital within 45 minutes (30 minutes drive away on a good day, 45 in rush-hour! :eek:) but OH has to go and see them intially to organise it. He just doesn't want to go and say the words, 'I need a semen analysis' to someone! :p
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Birdie85 wrote: »
    OH has to go and see them intially to organise it. He just doesn't want to go and say the words, 'I need a semen analysis' to someone! :p
    Ah I see. It was the same with DH, he didn't want to go, but as we went private, he didn't have to go to the clinic for the SA, I got the pot for him:cool:
  • Am I really only 6DPO??? Can I go on the testing list for 23rd September please?
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  • I was thinking the same COMP!! is that all I am! No, can't be right, it feels like sooo much longer!!!
    I will try a sneaky wee test on the 19th as DH goes away that day although I am not expecting to see anything encouraging and I think with DS I was about 14 days after I think I OV I got my +ve....
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  • maire1
    maire1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    Hi ladies! Ive been keeping up with you all!

    I had my erpc eight weeks ago after an mmc at nine weeks. It took my hcg levels until today to hit zero!!!!! Now I can feel af on her way and I'll be back in the ttc game!

    Fingers crossed I won't be back long, in the nicest possible way xx
  • Hiya Maire1,
    glad you're back and back on the TTC wagon!
    I also hope your stay isn't too long!
    :jMini Coops arrived 2011:j
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Good morning everyone:wave:

    Rumfeeble, have you tested?:)
    loulou, glad to hear your DH woke up for the cricket last night:cool:
    Hope he'll do the same (wake up, not kill it) for your baby:D
    MV, hope the coffee is a sign:)
    Some people use Mooncup after BDing and leave it there until the morning.
    becca, I use IC OPKs alongside CBFM, I find IC's catch the surge the night before CBFM:cool:
    PommeVerte, I get my IC OPKs from Amazon:)
    angeltreats, welcome:wave:
    Hope you'll catch it this month, June baby would be lovely:happyhear
    Time2deal, thank you for the comments from Guardian, don't think I'll be trying that hot bricks:p
    TeamLowe, when you leave your job, it will have to be with a bump:cool:
    Birdie, can't you get the SA pot for him to do at home? That's what I did.
    RazWaz, now you are ready to get pg (folic acid wise), so get pg:D
    lilymay, normal LP is between 10-16 days.

    you're well always telling me what to do! :p But yes, we're lucky in that DH's career is flying and we're in the position that my wage is completely spare, so he keeps saying 'you can quite tomorrow, you can quit tomorrow' which doesn't help when i'm having bad days at work. but i have a house deposit to save!
    they're 'reviewing' my department and we'll know in December who they need to lose, so i was saying to DH that i wouldn't want to volunteer and say, yeah i'll go next august and then find out i could have saved someone else's job if you get me.

    and of course, sod's law as always, we'll have saved enough for a house deposit by about mid-march. so we'll have the money, but might not be able to get a mortgage if i'm at risk of redundancy. if i'm made redundant, i'm happy to get a little cornershop/maccy's job to get the mortgage but obviously 'at risk' leaves me in limbo. will have to see what happens and what a broker says. why don't i have a crystal ball again? lol
    orrr DH could apply for the mortgage by himself but i'll be providing some of the money so don't think they'll let that happen x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    QQ - Please can I go on the testing list for 19th :) Thats when FF is telling me anyway. Think i'll be 11 or 12 dpo.
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • Hi all!

    Loads of us in the 2ww and testing end of September. Fingers crossed for us all!

    Thanks for answering my CBFM question QQ. Am i right in saying you still need to turn it off and on each day though? And if it asks for a stick, you dont necessarily have to giv it one?

    Goodvibes i work for the NHS as well but work f/t 5days a week. Part time isnt an option as two work colleagues have been on off maternity last year and come back requesting it and were denied it due to the loss of a f/t post for budgets. It would be all or nothing for me.

    Weve just sold our house as well and need to sav up for another so nothings not an option.

    Hi Marie. Welcome back in the nicest possible way.

    Teamlowe, I think your OH can use your money and get the mortgage in his name only. Some banks are a bit more lenient as to where a deposit comes from now. Only thing is ud probably want your name on the mortgage too so that might be a better idea.

    Thanks for the guardian article time2. I could just see DHs face if i told him he needed to cover his bits in jam! Although on the other side i could see why he would think that could be a good idea:D
    Thats no use for baby making though:rotfl:

    Hello to angel also.
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