unrequited love?

Lotus-eater

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

I hadnt thought of it like that. However it just seems so much easier for pretty women...

Really....?

I thought one of the reasons you liked him, was because he had a brilliant fit body?

Things are so much easier for handsome men

Callie22

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

I hadnt thought of it like that. However it just seems so much easier for pretty women...

God yes. Next time I'm coming back blonde, thin, tall and with an enormous pair of knockers. I reckon life would be a lot easier ...

raven83

Cat501 wrote: »

Mrs Ryan - I wish I was pretty, and slim and all the rest, but it's no guarantee - just think about Halle Berry, Cheryl Cole, ad infinitum - dream women to hundreds of thousands of men, but it didn't stop their partners cheating on them

I once asked a male friend of mine why some men cheat on gorgeous looking woman with....erm ones that are not aesthetically pleasing shall we say, and he said that the " ugly one's are usually the filthy ones in between the sheets and the beautiful ones can be a lot more erm.. uptight!" Or words to that extent.

raven83

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

Yes it is one of the reasons I like him very much so...

What I meant is that it easier for a beautiful woman to pull a handsome man. :p isnt it???

Where I live, you often see a really fit bloke with a girlfriend you wouldn't think he would have i.e. she isn't as pretty as him. See that a lot. Also I've know really attractive woman to always be single and never get much attention from blokes, I guess you have to think of the bigger picture.

raven83

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

Ok, so thats me and him in my avatar picture.

Both of us are 'scrubbed up' in that picture, ie thats about the best I can possibly look.

I dont think I've ever seen a really fit bloke with an ugly girlfriend, but then again in this situation its the WAG's I see and its depressing how gorgeous they all are!!!

Yeah but most of them are fake with their fake tits, hair and the colour of an oompa loopa that to me, isn't beauty, sounds cliche but a lot of beauty is what you exude and how other people perceive you. I bet if you was to take a good look at blokes and their girlfriends you wouldn't notice that not all fit men go for really pretty girls.

Lotus-eater

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

Yes it is one of the reasons I like him very much so...

What I meant is that it easier for a beautiful woman to pull a handsome man. :p isnt it???

And it's much easier for a handsome man to pull a beautiful woman.

It's the same

I'm lucky, really stunning women (by our societies standards) have never done it for me, so when I haven't managed to pull them (lets face it, I'm no male model ) I wasn't that worried.

I am turned on by looks, of course I am, all (ok most) men are, but to me it's the joie de vivre that really attracts me, but pierced nipples and red hair helps

raven83

Lotus-eater wrote: »

And it's much easier for a handsome man to pull a beautiful woman.

It's the same

I'm lucky, really stunning women (by our societies standards) have never done it for me, so when I haven't managed to pull them (lets face it, I'm no male model ) I wasn't that worried.

I am turned on by looks, of course I am, all (ok most) men are, but to me it's the joie de vivre that really attracts me, but pierced nipples and red hair helps

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Oh I another person with a red hair fetish

Cat501

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

Yes it is one of the reasons I like him very much so...

What I meant is that it easier for a beautiful woman to pull a handsome man. :p isnt it???

Pull them? Quite possibly

Keep them? Not so clear cut!

Suppose if you want to be pulled just because you're beautiful, by a man just because he's handsome - yeah, it maybe works! :P

eta with you on the bottle of wine luv!!

eta AGAIN - I've always had this strange feeling that I'll end up with a redhead. Never been with one yet so it's more likely it'll be an EX redhead....

Lotus-eater

raven83 wrote: »

Yeah but most of them are fake with their fake tits, hair and the colour of an oompa loopa that to me, isn't beauty, sounds cliche but a lot of beauty is what you exude and how other people perceive you. I bet if you was to take a good look at blokes and their girlfriends you wouldn't notice that not all fit men go for really pretty girls.

Nor to me, they are horrific tbh. A friend of mine was talking about the whole image of the WAG style thing and he mentioned they look like clowns, I can't get that out of my head after that and he's right When you look at them, or any girl going out with tons of fake tan and huge eye lashes, loads of make up and massive hair, the "new katie price look" as I describe it , you realise they do look like clowns. :rotfl:

raven83

Mrs_Ryan wrote: »

:rotfl: I must admit they do all seem to look the same!!! Thats unfortunately why a plus size redhead tends to stand out a bit :rotfl:

I must admit I do kind of wonder why he is so nice to me. The cynical part of me thinks its because I'm paying his wages but then the practical part of me points out he probably wouldnt have kissed me if he didnt like me

Apparently we only touch people we find attractive, so if someone makes a habit touching you or kissing you then it;s a good sign.