MSE Pregnancy Club 25

Rups32

nephthys you got his personality exactly!!! hit the nail on the head!! bery pragmatic and a deal with the situation guy.:) his dad is like that too and dont know how his mum survived looking after 4 of them boys and the husband. lol. yes i should let him have his space as he is like that and you are right, cant change him. i am def the more emotional one and sometimes when i cry, he doesnt get it lol. gets him more annoyed. him and his scottish temper. hehehe

you ladies are so so sweet. thank you so so much. i def feel so much lighter. will suggest he take me for the new James bond film. we will be attending a local festival together when he gets back from kung fu tomorrow so should seize the opportunity and my friend would have left by then. i think i am ready for her to leave now..:) love you guys. xxx

Bamama

I finished my soup off... sooo tempted to go to the burger van for something nicer though. Bacon butty anyone?

Nephthys

There you go - there's your beginning. He obviously wants to get to the root of things as well.

Don't nag - worst thing you can do - bite your tongue next time and just say - "have a good time". Then get out a large box of choccies and watch a soppy movie that you can't watch when he's around. I remember you saying in the past you could be a little bit jealous when he wanted time to do his own thing. It's healthy for a couple to have their own interests. Not to the exclusion of all else but you don't have to live in each other's pockets.

If he wants to talk then turn off the tv, radio, other distractions and really talk to each other, listen to each other's point of view and go from there. You do need to make the point of spending time with you and not just his friends but you need to accept a point of his in retunr. It's all about compromise! You can make it work out. I have faith in you!

Now, what you got for lunch!

Rups32

thanks bamama. i do always tell him how i miss his ermm part but he just dismisses it lol. and i do always tell him how much i want him.. i mean yes sexually and i just ask him for cuddles lol. he can be so cold at times but i will do what you suggested and see how we go. thanks so much darlings. you lot are like the sister i lost 2 years ago. xxx yes getting emotional

Rups32

its normally me who asks him to turn the stupid telly off to start chatting as his attention is always there!! lol..will do and wont start with a naggy talk. he is aware now we need to work at it so lets start hey? thanks again.

hmm i had stuff in the fridge to finish but am tempted to go the cafe and get an omlette and chips? can never spell ommlette. lol

Rups32

what have you guys got? bamama you naughty.. you made me think of my cafe.. lol

Nephthys

He's not cold Rups - far from it otherwise you'd never be having a baby. He's just not a man to show his emotions. Look at his positives and take it one day at a time.

Bamama - bacon butty sounds good! However, I'm on a half day today so heading home shortly. Not sure I have time! LoL!

Bamama

Hahaha sorry.

If I thought I could finish it I'd have one of their "Loaded Baps" :-
Bacon
Sausages
Eggs
Black pudding
Mushrooms
Beans
all in a big bap (same size as a paper plate)
with tea/coffee
Bargain at just under £3!

Rups32

yes you are right.. positives positive. need to start doing some yoga/breathing to calm myself down and get negative thoughts out of my head..

i only had brekkie 2 hours ago and already am getting ready.. hmm i have to get dressed to go out though.. damn..

Rups32

my god so cheap.. and naughty lol. i fancy a bacon roll now but iknow the one in the cafe wont fill me up as its a small roll lol