27yr old living an old mans life - help!

scheming_gypsy

Lusignan wrote: »

While that's probably true, she deserves to be loved as she is. And clearly she isn't at the moment, no offence to the OP.

but she can't expect her other half to fancy her when she's let herself go. He was attracted to her for a reason and usually the initial attraction is looks.

Lusignan

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

but she can't expect her other half to fancy her when she's let herself go. He was attracted to her for a reason and usually the initial attraction is looks.

Well I'm a couple of sizes larger now than when DH and I got together, and he still loves me as I am. I realise not everyone is so fortunate.

Scarlett1

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

but she can't expect her other half to fancy her when she's let herself go. He was attracted to her for a reason and usually the initial attraction is looks.

maybe grex (what is this the 3rd one now ?) has let himself go and his girlfriend dont think he is worthy to dress up for

scheming_gypsy

Lusignan wrote: »

Well I'm a couple of sizes larger now than when DH and I got together, and he still loves me as I am. I realise not everyone is so fortunate.

you're lucky, i'd have booted you out

grex80

Scarlett1 wrote: »

maybe grex (what is this the 3rd one now ?) has let himself go and his girlfriend dont think he is worthy to dress up for

I haven't the foggiest what you're on about. But thanks for the help.

grex80

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

but she can't expect her other half to fancy her when she's let herself go. He was attracted to her for a reason and usually the initial attraction is looks.

She still is attractive, don't get me wrong but I just got totally fed up of making all the moves all the time, it was never this way with previous girlfriends. Apart from being older,I'm exactly the same physically as I was when I was 21.

As for depression, I'm not sure if she is. Or if I am!!!

Lusignan

scheming_gypsy wrote: »

you're lucky, i'd have booted you out

Mate, you wouldn't have got in in the first place to boot me out

Scarlett1

grex80 wrote: »

I haven't the foggiest what you're on about. But thanks for the help.

if you cant love your girlfriend for who she is then leave her so she can find someone worthy of her love, seems like she is 100% in this relationship and you only seem interested when you want sex, I bet she fetches and carries for you when you have all your mates over :rolleyes:

so you arent the grex that has 2 other aliases

Scarlett1

Lusignan wrote: »

Mate, you wouldn't have got in in the first place to boot me out

lol, SG likes a challenge :rotfl:

Lusignan

Scarlett1 wrote: »

lol, SG likes a challenge :rotfl:

He's out of luck - I don't do charity work