Angry..do you see this as ok?

Skyllo

fedupandstuff wrote: »

I know he would not cheat on me with her as some have suggested.

You say this but last week would you have said "I know he wouldn't send sexual messages to another woman"?

scooby088

Heck i'm in a relationship and i wouldn't even send that sort of message to my partner(she'd have a right go at me) let alone another woman. Up to you OP what you do.

londonsurrey

Bad, ditch.

Too many levels to be excused:

- he didn't just pull it off you because he's a bit rude, he got agitated, and pulled it off you when it was a last resort. This shows, no matter what he says, that he KNOWS what he's doing is wrong.

- even when cornered, he blatantly just laughed it off. No apology, no remorse. You're looking at a blagger in action. Your proof he's a total liar with no conscience.

- he's cheating. He may or may not consider it cheating, but you do. This is what he's going to carry on doing, whether you're married, have babies, etc.

I'm sorry you're going through this.


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fedupandstuff

He did apologise sort of. He said that it was just him and his personality but if it makes me uncomfortable he wouldn't do it...
I feel like i am some mother telling him what he can and can't do and his response above just made me think he is validating it...but won't do it again if I am uncomfortable.
Still stands that he sees it as ok.
I have linked him this post.................

sassyblue

fedupandstuff wrote: »

I am trying to keep my posts to my feelings and not speculate. He does not suddenly work late or anything like that. We have a good sex life. We do not lack in that department. when he doesn't have to work we spend our free time together. He works hard to look after us all financially whilst i take care of the children the house and him.

You have children together and he sends texts like that to another woman?

Why bother linking him to this post? do you think he's going to see the light and behave, apologise properly instead of 'sort of'? Sorry but you both sound childish.

Get rid and find yourself a man, he won't change he's walking all over you and you deserve better.

MeganKate

It is almost 100% definite that he is shagging this woman..

Sorry I know that isnt what you want to hear.

fedupandstuff

Why bother linking him to this post? do you think he's going to see the light and behave, apologise properly instead of 'sort of'? Sorry but you both sound childish.

I was hoping that i guess

Tish_P

"If it makes you uncomfoprtable he won't do it" sounds like you are the unreasonable one and he's just humouring you! He knows fine it was wrong, or he wouldn't have tried to hide it.

I suspect he, too, might feel somewhat uncomfortable if you were texting other men about your state of arousal. And then trying to hide it. And then brazening it out when caught redhanded.

raven83

This whole thread smells a bit fishy if you ask me anything, then again i maybe wrong and it could be genuine.

billa_champion

It seems like you are making excuses for him and I can understand that seeing as you have kids with him. But really, do you or your kids need someone like that in your life?? No brainer - kick him to the kerb.