Angry..do you see this as ok?

fedupandstuff

I wouldn't say happy. My anger has gone. Upset is still there. I am just figuring out what i need to do really

purple.sarah

fedupandstuff wrote: »

I have spoken to him and he says he has nothing to hide from me. would never ever cheat on me and sees this woman as one of the lads. The term he had used is a common phrase at work amongst the lads. didnt think twice about saying it to her.

My two pence on !!!!!! is it is great as long as one person doesnt substitute sex with it. we watch it some times, he watches it on his own if he is away and i will watch it if i am on my own and particularly in the mood. I can say for sure neither of us could tell you what they look like once we have been watching. It's about what they do.
We even have one couple who do !!!!!! who we like to watch...we are aware of what they look like, but only because we enjoy what they do and love the fact it is so real and they are doing it for fun as a couple. They are not much to look at but its genuine fun and we like the same stuff they do.
porns great as long as it isn't invasive.

will say though...seeing as i am sat here being offended by something that otherhalf doesn't understand...what ever I think of !!!!!!, if i had an upset about it i would want to be listened to and have the other person have a little understanding of my reasons

If he has nothing to hide from you and it's totally innocent, why did he try to snatch his phone away when you saw the text?

Lunar_Eclipse

BugglyB wrote: »

Lunar eclipse, im sorry I can't quote your post I'm on my phone.

Being anti !!!!!! for ethical reasons is not the same as being anti mcdonalds - it would be the equivalent of being anti-burgers because you disagree with McDonalds, or being anti jumpers because you disagree with gap, or being anti coffee because of Starbucks. There is such a thing as fairtrade !!!!!! :-)

Yes, you're right, although the jumpers/GAP example doesn't really work now does it? Anti-jumpers:rotfl:

spugzbunny

fedupandstuff wrote: »

I have spoken to him and he says he has nothing to hide from me. would never ever cheat on me and sees this woman as one of the lads. The term he had used is a common phrase at work amongst the lads. didnt think twice about saying it to her.

Do you honestly think that it is OK to say that to a woman though? Do you honestly think it's not sexual at all?

I'm sorry but I think you are being a mug. I know that's harsh but I think someone needs to say it.