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I'd be upset at the situation too, so you have every reason to vent. Being made to feel unwelcome in your own home is never acceptable, whatever the circumstances are. Hugs XxDebts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
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please-let-me-be-lucky wrote: »I'd be upset at the situation too, so you have every reason to vent. Being made to feel unwelcome in your own home is never acceptable, whatever the circumstances are. Hugs Xx
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Hum, this communication side is not getting any better really is it? I was just trying to be charitable for him .... If you feel unwelcome in your own home then perhaps you need to consider even more coping strategies or the whole position?Start info Dec11 :eek:
H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
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Hope you get to see the little ones today nothing like a big hug to cheer you up
xx
MORTGAGE BALANCE when we moved Aug 2024, £120,000. January 1st £118,267.06. May 1st, £116, 123, June 1st, £115,536, New mortgage added for extension- £165,000 July 1st!Mortgage Overpayments - September-December, £152.46. J- £103.27, F- £115, M- £91.50, A- £100, M- £200, J- £200. J- £200.
Total- £1162.23
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Hello Granny, :hello:
Your DH sounds rather like my late DH would get sometimes, when 'people overload' struck.. Our solution was a separate place he could retreat to - not an easy / MSE solution though.
Anyway, very sorry to read DH's grumpiness spoiled your weekend.
Hope you get a cheerful visit from DGC today to cheer you up.0 -
Sorry to hear this Granny. Hugs from me too and also hope the DGC cheered you up
xxMFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal
Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T0 -
Time for a quick update as its been a while. Thanks for the words of sympathy, feeling a lot brighter at the moment.
Visit from little ones didn't happen as planned last week but I spent some quality time with my DGDs on Thursday when the 3 of us went out for a relatively low cost tea. It was delightful.
Today is DGSs birthday, cannot believe he's 1 already. He is as gorgeous as his sisters. He and the rest of his family called in yesterday for his presents and cards and each thing he opened, (be it clothes or toy), was met with a wow. At one point we were all chatting and having decided he'd waited long enough, he promptly tore into another present.
He took his baby walking frame home with him and has had great delight pushing it around his living room today.
Quick debt review has been done, signature updated accordingly. Slow steady progress with not too much hardship faced if I'm really honest. Just wish I'd tackled it years ago.
I'm meeting a friend later and then have to be fairly frugal until pay day on Friday.
Hope all is well.
Granny xTargets
Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!
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LBM : July 11 - £56,962
DEBT FREE 21-05-21
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Happy birthday DGS!!
Hope you had a good time with your friend XxDebts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
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Glad to hear you sounding chipper Granny..here's to good times aheadMFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal
Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T0 -
Granny..how's tricks? XxMFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal
Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T0
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