New Dmp Mutal Support Thread

smilealot

:hello: Hi Sea!

Your message cheered me up - thanks! I'm okay, just letting everything get on top of me. I'm the busiest I think I have ever been, lots of things happening at once, so not getting to bed until late, then not sleeping well when I actually get there. Same for most of us I guess.

Also, waiting on an appointment to go to the breast clinic at the hospital to get myself checked out - for the second time (making waiting for the post doubly exciting!). Trying to pretend it's not happening as it's a bit too much with all of this going on, but hey ho!

Goodness, I'm a right old grump tonight. Must start smiling again

Hope you get your marking done tomorrow morning - I'm so envious - I'm rubbish in the morning!!

Big hugs back to you (and everyone else who's feeling a bit down in the dumps today) :grouphug:

smilealot

Where's Gemmzie, I wonder? Haven't heard from her in ages. Hope she's okay...

Ex-Spendaholic

Welcome to Neith and Bessy

Smilealot sorry to hear you are feeling down. :grouphug: I hope all goes well at the clinic. Must be really stressful for you. :eek: at Co-op. That is a bit scary. I don't know whether to try to get an account with them or not now.

smilealot

:hello: Hi Ex!

Thanks, I'm sure it will be fine, I pretty sure I know I'm healthy, it will just be silly old lumpy sore bits! Best get it checked out I guess.

I'd still try with the Co-Op. As I say, it will take a couple of weeks to process, but it's worth it if it gives you extra security. By the sounds of things they weren't really checking my credit file to see if I was in huge debt, it was more to make sure I wasn't laundering money (ha ha - with my debts?!) ie. checking addresses etc. Maybe they only did it because I've moved every sixth months for the past few years - oops! Anyway, what harm can it do? It's not going to damage your credit rating as credit checks disappear after 6 months. I'd still say go for it, sorry didn't mean to scare you off

Ex-Spendaholic

You're alright Smilealot, you didn't scare me off. I suppose I had a good day today so in my usual paranoid state then expect a bad one to follow. Right I must stop thinking like this. I will get the rest of these creditors to accept the DMP if it's the last thing I do.

smilealot

That's the spirit Ex!!!

smilealot

Sorry for being silly, but this wee man really makes me smile, so please indulge my immaturity just this once!!

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Sea78

Ex-Spendaholic wrote:

You're alright Smilealot, you didn't scare me off. I suppose I had a good day today so in my usual paranoid state then expect a bad one to follow. Right I must stop thinking like this. I will get the rest of these creditors to accept the DMP if it's the last thing I do.

Go get 'em!

Sea78

Hoping the clinic goes ok Smilealot - must be so stressful for you.

I moved loads when I was down in London - 7 times in 5 years (the children didn't seem to mind!). That just adds to stress as well I found - having to put previous addresses was a nightmare!

This DMP business is so full of emotional ups and downs I've found - I don't know how I'll feel the next minute - anyone else feel like this or is it just me?!!

Sea xx

Gemmzie

smilealot wrote:

Where's Gemmzie, I wonder? Haven't heard from her in ages. Hope she's okay...

:hello: I'm here, just working all hours and got a tonne of coursework to finish so not around as much

Thanks for asking, hope all is as well as can be