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  • aneres
    aneres Posts: 432 Forumite
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    Hope everything works out for you, fingers crossed xx
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    Good for you, I hope it all works out, take care.
  • jaxjax123
    jaxjax123 Posts: 1,112 Forumite
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    Good luck I hope it all goes well for you.
    My brothers were adopted when they were 6 they are now 26 I'm 34.

    I found and met up with one of them 3 years ago. The other doesn't want to know. It was ok for a year or so. He then expressed interest in meeting our mum and dad (who are divorced) so I arranged it.

    He has since distanced himself from me and last week I found he has changed his phone number and deleted me from facebook. So I have lost him twice. I'm so upset about it I don't know where I went wrong.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Good luck - keep my fingers crossed for you!
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    Good luck. I hope it goes well.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • curlygirl1971
    curlygirl1971 Posts: 1,367 Forumite
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    jaxjax123 wrote: »
    I'm so upset about it I don't know where I went wrong.

    How awful for you. However I very much doubt it was down to something you did wrong - more than likely something inside of him that he couldn't deal with or face.
  • moneypuddle
    moneypuddle Posts: 936 Forumite
    Well done 7DW - so looking forward to hearing the outcome!
  • scrappie_2
    scrappie_2 Posts: 443 Forumite
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    SDW - been following your story from the begining. Glad you finally took the plunge - hope all works out well you a your whole family.

    Sending hugs.
    Scrappie:p
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  • Mely
    Mely Posts: 4,121 Forumite
    I hope everything goes well. Im looking forward to your update x
  • harrys_nan
    harrys_nan Posts: 1,777 Forumite
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    hope all goes well ((hugs))
    Treat other's how you like to be treated.

    Harry born 23/09/2008
    New baby grandson, Louie born 28/06/2012,
    Proud nanny to two beautiful boys :j
    And now I have the joy of having my foster granddaughter becoming my real granddaughter. Can't ask for anything better

    UPDATE,
    As of today 180919. my granddaughter is now my official granddaughter, adoption finally granted
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