The february 2012 br club

Florence22

jayk wrote: »

Seem to remember a standard letter somewhere on this site do you know where?

Yes there is Jayk, I've just had a quick look but couldn't see it so will have a good search later on - I have to go out soon....:mad:

My OR has just called, seems like a really nice lady. As with yours, she hasn't got my SOA yet so she went through a few things with me, and said that it could be early next week when she calls for the interview. That has settled me a little but as we said - won't feel truly relieved until it's over. She was very nice though......:)

Molly welcome to the club!!:)

I am sure all will go smoothly for you. I was a little shocked at my reaction yesterday but please don't be concerned, most people on here seem to have a very happy BR day (sounds like code for birthday!!) and I have to say that I feel so much better today, thanks to my BR friends on here.

I think that the hardest step is the decision to do it, you've done the bravest thing now and we'll all look forward to hearing how well it went.
Keep posting, I know we'll all do our best to support you molly.

Best wishes
Flo xx

jayk

Hi Flo and Molly

Molly welcome understand how you feel. I was dreadful before my court date and then it all went very well that part is not the worse. The forms, making the decision and all the worry and stress that goes well before reach the petition point are very difficult.

Once that parts done you will be waiting then for OR interview- I really for one will be glad when that's done. Hope I don't start to mumble and bumble along when its my turn!!

Flo- I will have a look for those letters.

Molly- you are not alone ad it does help to get anxieties and worries out of your head you think it must just be you- then you realise it really is not. We are hear to listen, share and help each other through the months.

IF

molly1412 wrote: »

hi everyone,

just wanted to join the "club"

i have been on this forum for prob a year building up the courage to do what we are going to do

We have finally set everything up – coop account is now up and running, changed most DD and wages etc got all the fees and halfway through the forms and got our date set for next Thursday (cant say I am looking forward to it) but will be nice to get a step forward with the process

Dreading the OR interview more than anything and just hope by the end of this month I can start building our life back up

xx

Hi Molly and welcome to the Feb BR Club, Dojoman will add your name to the front page :beer:

Your preperations sound spot on

If..x

dojoman

Hi molly, I have added your name to our "club". Try not to worry to much about the OR interview (easier said than done) but this was the part I was dreading the most, but it was not anywhere near as bad as I feared.

IF

Bumping up the board.......x

dojoman

Bump........................................

jayk

Hi

I have received call from Or my telephone interview will be Monday morning. Am nervous about it cant remember all the dates however its on the SOA as best I could do. Really hoping it will all be okay be glad when its over and only hope will just have the one interview. Still at least not had to wait weeks that would have been worse for me.

Good luck anyone else having their interview Monday.

Florence22

Hi Jayk, I'm really glad for you that it's Monday, it'll be all over and done with at the start of the week for you.

I can understand how you feel though, this is the next hurdle for us isn't it?

How about you do what you did last weekend - get all your papers together tomorrow morning then try to forget about it, go to your Daughter's again on Sunday and have a big fat roast dinner, relaxing bath and early night, ready to answer the OR's questions on Monday morning after another read-through.

I'll be here all over the weekend (apart from Sunday 3-8) so will keep a close eye out for you, but please pm me anytime if you have a wobble.

You never know, I may be on to mine on Monday too as she said if my forms arrived she would call me then - so you may not be on your own

Don't worry by yourself, stay on the forum if you feel anxious and just think how you'll feel this time next week - all over!!:D

Best wishes,
Flo

jayk

Hi Flo

Thanks will be busy Sat all day and going to see my son on the Sunday (intend to tell him face to face about BR) hope he will understand. My daughter is off on Monday and is going to come round early and just sit there in room whilst phone interview is on. That's a big support.

Yes you may well get yours soon as well. We have moved on anyway just think this time last week I was in a complete panic with my forms, reasons and everything!! You were much the same. But we have done it and like you said least start of the week. Hopefully wont be to long. Can only do my best.

Will let you know how it goes. Will read over SOA before Mon and have everything to hand in front of me and a very large mug of coffee.!

Florence22

Your Daughter sounds lovely!
Don't forget - once the interview is over put something nice and strong in with the coffee :beer:

Very best of luck xx