MSE Pregnancy Club 24

rjh090384

I got four boxes of pampers sensitive the day after the asda baby event ended in clearance for £5 a box!!

My daughter couldn't tolerate any others except pampers sensitive( our favorite), Huggies pure (too thick and tear) and tesco own brand sensitive which were false economy cos they were thin you had to use more.

U should buy one of each to see what your baby likes. My little one had very sensitive skin.

emsbet

Welcome milliebob and congratulations! :wave: What's your due date? Would you like adding to the list?

xx

little_miss_moneysaver_3

Welcome and congrats Milliebob
I'm stocking up on many things, cotton wool, cotton buds, sponges as well as some baby baby/shampoo not too much incase they're allergic etc. am stocking up on pampers nappies as heard Huggies are naff. Have got quite a few different wipes too. Lots of pampers sensitive wipes as heard there's a lot of allergy to wipes. If you sign up to the baby clubs they seems to give lots of vouchers for Huggies which if you look for special offers you can often get for free or nearly free so I get them then. hope that helps

Miss_Money

jennynoo congratulations! what lovely names


im sorry i need to get this off my chest....its a long rant sorry
well i've had a rubbish day. I think me and the oh are on the point of breaking up he's acting like a complete moron. He got himself into a tizz cos the house isn't immaculate and proceeded to shout at me and the girls, saying i'm a rubbish mother for not teaching them to tidy etc etc. (i bl00dy do teach them to tidy.. I'm sick of having to show them how to do their room etc) anyway... it's menat the girls have spent all afternoon in their room, and ive been banished upstairs having labelled me lazy, and if i don't get on with the housework tomorrow he wants me gone. i feel like packing my bags now, and if i go into labour any time soon i dont want him there! I'm not the tidyest person i know that.. but neither is he. he said when it came to the weekend he shouldnt have to do ANYTHING houseworky. I'd like to see him manage to do bleeding housework with spd. At this rate I'll be seperating from him after the birth if he carries on with how he speaks to me and the girls. he's said some right nasty things today that i won't be able to forget :(anyway ive just sat down in bed after slogging my guts out and im in agony now I havent eaten and i cant eat cos i feel so carp

rjh090384

Oh Hun I'm so sorry. It does sound like u both unhappy. How old r ur girls if u don't mind me asking?

Miss_Money

7 and 4. they aren't his. we got together when youngest was one.

rjh090384

Ps I would tell him to four letter word off tho I understand why u possibly can't with baby on way

Miss_Money

I can't do that though Im sort of trapped. He deals with all the finances and I have no where to go if i did say bye bye. seriously today i feel absolutly nothing for him at all (which cant be right) (i think its his lack of empathy with everything pain related, he just doesnt get it) he takes offence at the slightest things too. i got out of bed got washed and put my spray deoderant on... he tried to hug me in the middle of this, i moved away (smelly deoderant going everywhere which he usually complains about) he said why did you reject me?! um hello an inapropiate time to hug wait a minute! then he was like, i dont want one now etc.. sex is another thing.. he cant have a hug without him getting sexual and im not feeling the least bit sexy nor do i want sex! another rejection he takes it as... ive thought the unthinkable today too.. that as much as this baby will be loved by me, maybe it wasnt a good idea getting pregnant in the 1st place.

oh and i was told "anymore complaining about the food shopping i do and your out!" i just sat on the floor and sobbed at that to which he said i was a baby and he was sick of dealing with a baby!

mishkanorman

Miss_Money,

You have my full sympathy - we have sunday sulks as every sunday my OH starts a grump about the housework :mad: Im lazy, i know I put housework at the bottom of the list every time. What annoys me most is he is too, he rants about piles of carp left everywhere as all he can see is my mess - in fact its a good 50/50 split of stuff, also 2 kids at home all day in ANY house will leave it looking ransacked

Its not been too bad here lately he seems to have got over it a little at least, Ive also learnt to do the housework (the worst of it) on a saturday when he is at work so there is less to pick at on Sunday.

Hope things get better for you anyway,


AFM,

I have constipation from hell i cant sit as it hurts and I cant stand as gravity kicks in and makes it feel worse poor baby has no room to move. Anyone own a plunger ???

Kitten_Pie

Miss_Money,

I wanted to offer you support. No matter what the situation many go through the 'was this a good idea' moments. It doesn't make you bad but makes you a good mother for wanting the best for your baby.

If I were in your situation I would look into the options of leaving, what rights you have etc. Not that you will use them but to know what your options are will make you feel that little bit more in control.

Has he always been this way or has he changed with the pregnancy. If it is a recent change it may be he is scared, mens hormones change too etc and arguments and clashes can be blown out of proportion with neither side wanting to back down. (Not saying this has happened but just to be aware that it can)

We are all here to support you no matter how things go. Big hugs