MSE Pregnancy Club 24

*Nutella*

Miss Money, so sorry to hear what you're going through - thinking of you and sending big ((hugs)). I don't really have any advice to offer as it's not a situation I've experienced, but please feel free to rant, vent and/or sob on here - we're all here to listen and support in any way we can x

*Nutella*

Elelyn, I started my leave 3 weeks before my due date (all 3 weeks were annual leave - my actual maternity leave started today on my due date). I was so ready to finish work by then, despite having a one-bus-door-to-door commute and the option of working from home whenever I needed to. So if you're suffering with aches and pain and also have a killer commute, it may well make sense to finish off early. Unless of course you have the option of working from home for a week or two? Like someone else said, I would suggest making sure you have some nice things planned - for my first week off, I had one activity planned for each day to get me out of the house. They were all nice things like lunch with a friend, a pregnancy massage etc. After 3 weeks off I'm now starting to get a bit bored, but hey.... Better enjoy a bit of laziness whilst I can!

thegreenroom

Miss_Money wrote: »

mishkanorman yep the oh does wht yours does... brews it all up. we wont speak now for at least 3 days and i will spend the evening s in my room as im "not welcome" in the living room!. and then he will try and act as if nothing has happened.

thanks for listening to me though people it's helped somewhat. ive managed to make myself a ham toastie (looks like hes been to the shop) and ive eaten now. however.. and this is tmi... after eating the toastie i had a huge bh that went into my bowels :eek: and made me go to the loo... no more constipation!!

I think your going into labour very soon,I'm sorry to say your OH sounds like a bully and you deserve better than that,are you scared of him?

Miss_Money

im not scared of him, just right royally !!!!!! off at him.

rjh090384

At least your not scared. I was petrified of my husband. I had to hide in room not cos he was annoyed at me but cos I couldn't guarantee that any conversation wouldn't set him off and he might hit me. It's not a nice way to live at allx

Miss_Money

no the worst he's going to do is shout. the thing is im not very confrontational... i dont "do" arguing. I just sit and cry which makes it worse somehow.

rjh090384

Not fun at all hun. Giant hugs.

Miss_Money

im even more annoyed cos im sat up here without a tv, and game of thrones is on and i really really wanted to watch it. bah!

MummyOfTwo

dya know miss money im upstairs for exactly the opposite reason - hubby IS watching game of thrones and it does my head in!

rjh090384

Well girls I'm off to bed Hoping for a decent night sleep. Good luck to u all for sleeping and baby popping