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sister doesnt want her child HELP!!

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  • David_B_2
    David_B_2 Posts: 718 Forumite
    Hopefully a happy ending to a sad tail.

    One day your sister may see sense and realise what a b*tch she was and may even regret the time she has missed on his childhood.

    I wish you all well.
    Regards,
    Dave

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  • nats3006
    nats3006 Posts: 1,627 Forumite
    Kimberley wrote: »
    I feel sorry for the young boy, he's old enough to know "mummy" is not looking after him no more "mummy doesn't love me". She should be ashamed of herself, he never asked to be born and she is very selfish, it doesn't matter what some of you say, giving up your child just because you don't want him is unforgivable. He could grow up having mental problems and could scar for life :rolleyes:

    No its not right i know what your saying i do believe she is twisted :confused: dont know why cos none of us other 3 kids are!!! well im saying kids not exactly kids!! yes she makes people mad but we do feel sorry for her as well at times cos she doesnt know what she wants herself and TBH we do think she will take him back when he can dfend for himself but by then its too late!!!
    thanks for your advice


    And to everyone else thanks ever so much for all ur advice and caring really over whelming!!
    xxxxxxxx
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  • nats3006
    nats3006 Posts: 1,627 Forumite
    rovers wrote: »
    I read your post for the first time today with tears streaming down my face thinking about that poor boy (the same age as my son) being rejected. Now I've come to your update I now see him as a really lucky little boy. You and your mum give me faith in human nature. Give yourselves a pat on the back!
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    Thanks ever so much we do try our best as much as we have tried to get his mum to sort herself out but still no good. so we are bringing him up as best we can trying to not let it affect him it doesnt appear to be but i know obviously it will be!
    i know how u feel when crying i did i have a 3 year old and a 4 month old to juggle lol but i do it cos i love him enough and without us he has nothing and cannot fend for himself!!!
    ;)
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    Can you breathe out of your nose and mouth at the same time?:cool:

    Why don't the hairs on your arms get split ends?:mad:
  • looby75
    looby75 Posts: 23,387 Forumite
    I'm so pleased to hear that everything is going well for you all.
    your nephew is lucky to have a loving family who I'm sure will make up for what his mum has done to him.

    All the best for the future,
  • nats3006 wrote: »
    well as i already said in title my sister has now decided after 5 and a half years she no longer wants her son i know she is the worst mother that could ever walk the planet doing that to her child she just feels that she cant and doesnt love him and she blames his father as she was with him for 7 years and he never beat her just kept her from going out all the time and basically just made her life hell her words not mine! she has now decided that she no longer wants anything to do with him, he see's his dad every sunday and he isnt very reliable always turning up late if he turns up at all and she rang him yesterday and said she doesnt want him anymore and the dad said neither does he so its a case were my mum has said she would look after him she is 44 and is on anti depressants due to the way that my sister has treated her the past year but she is very capable of looking after him as she has done for the past year but my sister living with them. i was just wondering because both of his parents agree to this how would she go about getting him legally and be his guardian.

    xx

    Im really sorry to hear that i hope everything gets sorted out.

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  • dlb
    dlb Posts: 2,488 Forumite
    Hiya nats, so glad to hear everything is going ok as such, sorry iv not caught you on msn for a while.
    So pleased you contacted social services, bet that put your mind at rest abit.
    Always here if you need me.
    Donna
    xx
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  • nats3006
    nats3006 Posts: 1,627 Forumite
    Thanks dlb not been on msn for a while now its boring no friends really :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: thanks for all ur advice and help at this difficult time and thanks to everyone else.
    :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T
    "Have you ever noticed that if you rearranged the letters in mother in law, they come out to Woman Hitler?":p :p:p

    If money doesn't grow on trees then why do banks have branches?:D

    Can you breathe out of your nose and mouth at the same time?:cool:

    Why don't the hairs on your arms get split ends?:mad:
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