Dilema - donation to make ex pregnant

dorisday

Having read your whole post op all I have to say is There is something wrong with both of you sounds like she is a control freak and needs a childs life to be in charge of - ok when they are small but I can see many serious problems arising when they get older.
You need to move on in your own life unless you are some kind of massakist and enjoys this kind of life with her.
sounds like she has some emotional problems stemming from childhood.

claire16c

Hagar_uk wrote: »

Lol....when we first talked about she asked if i would still want to try if i met someone else..we had been talking about doing it the old traditional way as well.. is it just me who thinks being faithful is kind of part of the deal of relationship

Wow. I dont think she gets the concept of donor.

I would keep all contact with her solely related to things to do with your son.

purple.sarah

Hagar_uk wrote: »

Lol....when we first talked about she asked if i would still want to try if i met someone else..we had been talking about doing it the old traditional way as well.. is it just me who thinks being faithful is kind of part of the deal of relationship

The traditional method of sperm donation is sperm in a cup and a turkey baster because doing things the old fashioned way with intercourse will only complicate things emotionally, especially when you still have feelings for her!

Also if she is planning to do things the old fashioned way if she gets another donor she is running the risk of diseases. If she insists on a donor she should go through a sperm bank where the samples will have been screened, not go with any guy who wants to have unprotected sex! I don't think she is thinking this through and considering your well-being or her own.

I would second the suggestion to limit any contact with her to conversations about your son. And not about how much he would like a sibling! Another big change will be the last thing he needs at the moment while dealing with the disruption of the separation.

halibut2209

Only agree if she agrees to have a threesome with you and her girlfriend