DFW with no name (and 101 probs)

miggy

Get well soon Erme!

And about the pjs... interesting question - I can only assume people are thought to like baggy ones?

Erme

Thanks Miggy

Anyhow just when I thought I had family prob sorted she goes an ignores me again when I needed her cos tennis comes first :mad:

Had to prompt her just to get her to notice me (and gave her 3 hours to respond to the text :mad:). Just cos I was really missing the family. She made some excuse about having to text me ad lib otherwise but that was just her being extreme :mad: She never even acknowledged my pain in the first place.

And don't mention DS. All I get from her is that she'd pray for me when I really needed her address. It's like I haven't said that. She's completely ignored that by txt. Ma will be very tired tomorrow and who will have to deal with that? Me :P

I told her she was worshipping sport going down to so many olympic events. She denied it. Well going to see 'sitting' volleyball (how patronizing is that!!! Sitting. No it's just volleyball) and boccacia today on Sabbath to me is worshipping sport. You just don't do that. Not from the woman who won't even wash up on sabbath cos it's breaking sabbath...

DM was doing so well....argh....too well. She's forgotten tuesday. She's forgotten everything and it's all about her yet again.

And don't mention lazy Michael More of Gerrard street. He's not helping himself. Says I phone too much yet like never replies to texts. He's not sent me a text since the 15th of August and that was only 2 words. He has no comprehension of anyone but himself.

And as for BS line. Got someone who sounded like B and I was feeling rough and then proceeds to deny she's B and bites my head off. So stressed. Have bible to read in a mo. Can't go jogging today as it's a day off jogging and like it's sabbath. Jogging kept me partially sane yesterday. this all kicked off about 10am...

fact is my family...DON'T CARE....

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Erme

Morning all...

I have been a tad hyper so like food shop at like 9am yesterday :eek:...

Was tired the rest of the day ...didn't diet...didn't do very much

Am now on Flylady though trying to get my head round Big Tent is hard and I forgot to do dress to lacing up shoes this am...

However my sink is now shiny and like have been decluttering. S wasn't happy about my binning of my best china mugs but still. I don't use them and they are just taking up space. I need that space. It was too cluttered otherwise. I hadn't got room to prepare and cook stuff (often it was done on the kitchen sink :eek:)

Took me about an hour this am with the decluttering but currently I'm not working and I have the time. Once the house is ship shape it should take less to maintain . I did 15 mins on the coffee worksurface..then had a rest....then like put the rubbish out...then did the recycling.

Tonight I have before bedtime routine (so that means doing the sink straight after dinner and like then sorting out the laundry and also getting gym stuff sorted out before bed).... and then crochet for half an hour before more decluttering....internet and like reading pre bed. Bed about 9/9.30 if I get my act together...

Have a good day folks

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MuffinTops

Hello Erme,

It sounds like your family are really pushing your buttons at the moment. It's a shame that the people who you expect to show you support just won't do it, but I guess they see it differently to you.

How are you feeling today? Has the hyper calmed down? Or are you still giving your kitchen what for? I haev to say, I think that's a great way to focus your energy.

I hope you're feeling better and able to enjoy this lovely day we're having. Hopefully it's lovely where you are too.

miggy

Did you know you can do the before-bed routine earlier if you have time?... just so long as it gets done and you can wind down in the evening instead of running round doing a routine... (can you tell I have fallen off the FL wagon a good many times? )

Erme

Milo went downhill yesterday (SF)..he'd been having symptoms of hind leg degeneration for a while but like vet said he was fine (charity vet) but yesterday his right back leg completely went and was causing pain. took him to charity vet who examined and hurt him and they said it wasn't broken (I knew that!!!) and that he just had soft tissue damage. Wasn't happy...

So took him to expensive. Non MSE private vet this pm and they were lovely and didn't charge too much (£20 including consultation)

Only prob is I think burn is reinfected ...och no more antibiotics if it not clear up...

And I had Milo put to sleep. That's what the girl I got them off said was best for him...

So am too tired to grieve right now but will DV sleep soon...

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miggy

Ah, I'm sorry to hear about Milo. Big hug for you too, I know you will miss him a lot. I know it sounds like a cliche but you did what was best for him. He isn't in pain or suffering any more, and you tret him like a king while he was with you.

Go easy on yourself Erme, and look after that burn.

xx

MuffinTops

Ahhh, I'm so sorry to hear about Milo Erme. Big hug being sent to you for when you wake up.

Erme

Bob is getting a new exercise wheel and a treat tomorrow when I go in and tell the old chappie at the pet store (he's lovely)

After much deliberation and like one whoopsie (cancelled. Dumb move trying to get a rat a 8.5" exercise wheel :eek:) I did some research and got him a plastic flying saucer

No probs with tails and he won't get fat. He's pining but nibbling. I tried to get him out this evening and he thought he was going the same way as Milo and promptly bolted. Squeak squeak. Then wanted to come out again so have left classic fm on for him. Might put the digital radio on for him too.

Anyhow have had brilliant support today. Feel like I could have given Milo pain medicine instead of putting him to sleep but then I remember how much pain he was in last night and he was in agony.

Not very MSE getting Bob a new exercise wheel but have been meaning to get one for a while

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Erme

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This is the 'my cage is too small' pic


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