Virtual Sex - cheating or 'just p@rn'

Peater

And what about 'googling for p0rn' for pure onanism?

I have conversing with a mate over lunch today and the subject came up that his girlfreind (who he is head over heels for) is going away for the weekend and how much he was looking forward to getting back from dropping her off so he could just 'have a bash'.

Masterbation and Sexual intercourse are two totally unrelated activities in my opinion.

victory

I had to google what onanism meant:rotfl: now I know that is still a complete different thing, [EMAIL="p@rn"]p@rn[/EMAIL] is watching other people enjoying themselves and onanism or OH participation follows, cyber sex is watching a live person usually either you pay vast amounts of money to interact with them, type away all that but that is to me taking it too far.

Strangely for some unknown reason considering the topic cyber sex seems sordid and seedy and a betrayal but [EMAIL="p@rn"]p@rn[/EMAIL] is the natural way

Errata

Doing it once, or twice, can be put down to curiosity or behaviour out of character. Doing it regularly indicates something is amiss somewhere.

candygirl

Peater wrote: »

And what about 'googling for p0rn' for pure onanism?

I have conversing with a mate over lunch today and the subject came up that his girlfreind (who he is head over heels for) is going away for the weekend and how much he was looking forward to getting back from dropping her off so he could just 'have a bash'.

Masterbation and Sexual intercourse are two totally unrelated activities in my opinion.

What about if a blokes looking at pics of other women, and interacting with them online?Dya think that's ok if he's in a relationship?Not being critical just curious, and where does love n respect for the gf come into it?:(
As someone in a relationship, I wouldn't ever have cybersex with another bloke.I know women n men are different , but it feels a bit sordid to me:o:o

victory

I agree sordid, taking it over the limits, a bit of ogling is fine and expected but taking it to another level is going online to 'be with another woman' I mean what if he has a favourite? Does it cost him? Is he a monthly member?

Peater

candygirl wrote: »

What about if a blokes looking at pics of other women, and interacting with them online?Dya think that's ok if he's in a relationship?Not being critical just curious, and where does love n respect for the gf come into it?:(
As someone in a relationship, I wouldn't ever have cybersex with another bloke.I know women n men are different , but it feels a bit sordid to me:o:o

No, i think that crosses a line and is rather unhealthy.

My post was directed at the statement of 'I think looking at p0rn is ok as a pre-curser to intercourse with a partner' which i found a bit confusing.

I was making a point that 'flying solo' while in a relationship is perfectly healthy and shouldn't be seen as cheating or a slight on the other partner as i regard it as a unrelated activity to sex itself.

candygirl

Peater wrote: »

No, i think that crosses a line and is rather unhealthy.

My post was directed at the statement of 'I think looking at p0rn is ok as a pre-curser to intercourse with a partner' which i found a bit confusing.

I was making a point that 'flying solo' while in a relationship is perfectly healthy and shouldn't be seen as cheating or a slight on the other partner as i regard it as a unrelated activity to sex itself.

Right I get you now, so you agree that cyber sex with another person while in a relationship is wrong.I know a lot of blokes see them both as the same thing, mainly because they're soo used to objectifying women:(

elantan

silly q ... but how would i check the history of web pages browsed on my comp?

candygirl

elantan wrote: »

silly q ... but how would i check the history of web pages browsed on my comp?

With mine I click on the spanner thing at the top right hand side to go into tools, then click on history and delete it;):D

elantan

Lol I was hoping I would get to see it before its deleted