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MG - The Matrix Re-wired

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  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    Good evening

    Been to Asda today had a good shop on stuff that were rolled back to 50p :) and a few whoopseee items that were freezable.

    Greenbee hugs hope he changes his mind.

    I have a load of washing again :( DS2 had an accident so his new Duvet has had to be washed and it is a thick one it is going to take some drying :( although he is doing really well he hasn't had an accident for about 2 weeks :)

    Managed to clean upstairs this morning before I went up the market then do downstairs when I came home, so smells lovely here of lavender zoflora
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    Just passing through, huge hugs Greenbee xx
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    tenmah - well done on your debt free status :T:T

    Dorastar - I have to say i think twinks are really lovely but with only 6oz of sugar, I think 8 is way too sweet (and I have a very sweet tooth :eek:)
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • Memory_Girl
    Memory_Girl Posts: 4,957 Forumite
    Just checked my recipe - and I only use 4oz of sugar - they are still plenty sweet enough for us here.

    Righto - in the spirit of "be careful what you wish for" - programming to meet a Mr Wonderful - and today have been contacted by my OH when I was 15, 19, 21 and 25 (not in a reboundy kind of way but we were both Stage Managers so not often in the same country) ............... and I guy I had a secret crush on when I first moved back up here.

    Its gonna be interesting

    MG
    FINALLY AND OFFICIALLY DEBT FREE
    Small Emergency Fund £500 / £500
    Pay off all Debts £10,000 / £10,000
    Grown Up Emergency Fund £6000 / £6000 :j
    Pension Provision £6688/£2376
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,857 Forumite
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    Well its clearly making him unhappy, but he's determined to stick to his decision (the one made this morning, rather than the one made last week, clearly). So that's it, it's over. I'm not quite sure how I'm going to deal with it, but at least I'll lose weight as I don't appear to need to eat anymore...
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    (((((((((((((((((((greenbee)))))))))))))))))) you are in a very difficult situation and it's difficult to say the right thing.
  • Having been there myself recently.... it's horrid to start, and you will have a bad phase, and then it will get better..

    I won't quote at you all the clich!s which were quoted at me, and which (rather annoyingly) end up being true... because you don't want to hear it

    I promise you'll come out of it ok. It's fine to cry, or whinge, or eat chocolate, or whatever..

    Just look after yourself, mourn a little and be gentle with yourself...

    Thinking of you xxxx
  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    Hugs greenbee and others that need it

    :T to tenmah again - sometimes debt is unavoidable, but the car and moving has been an investment into a better life so I think it's allowable!

    I'm feeling a lot stronger today, visiting another place I'll be working really made some home truths sink in, all for the better.
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    greenbee wrote: »
    Well its clearly making him unhappy, but he's determined to stick to his decision (the one made this morning, rather than the one made last week, clearly). So that's it, it's over. I'm not quite sure how I'm going to deal with it, but at least I'll lose weight as I don't appear to need to eat anymore...

    :( dare i say he clearly doesn't deserve you lovey xxx

    TMIF speaks a lot of truth, sending you lots of hugs xx
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • mumsiemum
    mumsiemum Posts: 254 Forumite
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    Just home from work and heading to bed but had to send hugs to ((((((((((((((Greenbee))))))))))))

    Agree with TMIF.

    Nothing we can say will take the pain away - but one day in the future it will start to hurt a teeny bit less than it does now. In the mean time we are all thinking of you - take care of yourself.

    MM
    February 2021 GC £301.45 / £300.00
    March 2021 GC £266.41 / £280.00
    April 2021 GC £53.19 / £300.00
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