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  • dorisday
    dorisday Posts: 299 Forumite
    just keep your chin up sweetheart Im sure they wont send you to jail over this - 1st offence and the mother of 5 children but you shall probably get probation and possibly a fine/or suspended sentence.
    I did something very stupid many years ago but owned up to it all and it didnt go anywhere had to pay it all back though. Circumstances can lead us along the wrong paths at times.
    The judge shall probably give you some of his/her sharp tongue just accept it look heartfully sorry for what you did sure this wont take any acting.
    Sure you will be going home honey.
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  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
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    susanne007 wrote: »
    been to court have to go to crown court on the 21st dec for sentencing

    Thats very quick ?, do you mean you've been to court , tried and found guilty?

    I'm sorry , but that doesnt sound right
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  • NorthernStudent
    NorthernStudent Posts: 53 Forumite
    edited 15 December 2011 at 9:38PM
    pelirocco wrote: »
    Thats very quick ?, do you mean you've been to court , tried and found guilty?

    I'm sorry , but that doesnt sound right


    If Susanne has plead guilty, the magistrates would adjourn it to crown court for sentencing, so the magistrates part would be over in matter of minutes!
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  • Couldn't read and run.... hope things work out for you, we have all made mistakes which is why the majority of us are on these boards! Things can very easily spiral out of control.

    loads of old quoations about walking a mile in someone elses shoes spring to mind for those with criticism....
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  • yes i pleaded guilty as it was me who made provident aware ov what i had done otherwise they would have never known and yes there is critisism but that is only to be expected as i was very foolish
  • well cried all day today dreading tomorrow hopefully i will be able to let u know whats happened and thank you to everyone that has given me support
  • jimimi
    jimimi Posts: 281 Forumite
    All the best for tomorrow Susanne, can't imagine how you must be feeling. I'm surprised Provident got the police involved, I know of a similar thing that happened like this with another doorstep loan provider (I can't really go into details on here) and the person involved just got the sack! I hope you don't get put in prison for it, people have done far worse things and got off, and that's only the ones I have heard about!

    Good luck for tomorrow, sorry I couldn't offer any advice :(
  • ineed
    ineed Posts: 4,432 Forumite
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    Hi Susanne, couldn't just read this without wishing you good luck for tomorrow.
    I felt so sad for your situation reading this obviously you just buried your head in the sand and it's easily done, I can't imagine how worried you must be right now.
    You will probably get a suspended sentence and community work or something as a first time offence and the fact you owned up to it and that you have five children, fingers crossed for you.
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  • camuk81
    camuk81 Posts: 1,559 Forumite
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    Was thinking of you last night, fingers crossed and hopefully we will see you back on here tomorrow
  • susanne007 wrote: »
    well cried all day today dreading tomorrow hopefully i will be able to let u know whats happened and thank you to everyone that has given me support
    Bless you. I'm sure it will be fine and you'll be back here tomorrow, telling us so x
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