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im in a mess advise needed asap
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Forgive me for asking but what on earth did you buy with the money?
How is your poor husband?
Why didn't you tell him sooner?
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it started out with basic cost ov living and family. then it was loans to pay the loans i had already got. hubby is not so poor somedays hes okay the other days not and i didnt tell him coz i was scared to death ov0
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my hubby would make sure he got his money b4 anything else was paid he would LEND me money to buy nappies for the kids when they were young but i would have to pay him back0
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the fraduud would not be to your freinds it would be against providfent.
what exactly have you told provident? you may be able to get away with thisSig to go here...0 -
susanne007 wrote: »my hubby would make sure he got his money b4 anything else was paid he would LEND me money to buy nappies for the kids when they were young but i would have to pay him back
Why would you have more and more children with him then?!Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
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Are these his children, why is he lending you money for nappies. Not very team like.0
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Sounds like you have been the victim of serous financial abuse at the hands of your husband for a very long time. Who LENDS his wife money for their children's nappies? That's just insane.
Tell everything to the solicitor when you see them in private.0 -
a nice guy i have told provident that the customers agreed to get the loans for me and that i had been paying them back i never forged signatures and the customers were aware of this0
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yes the children are all his0
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susanne007 wrote: »yes the children are all his
And he lends you money for nappies? I actually cannot get my head around this, does he pay for anything?0
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