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Worse of Boyfriend Moving in

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  • zoezoe_3
    zoezoe_3 Posts: 257 Forumite
    sexy_fufu wrote:
    he earns 32k but by the time we has paid CSA there isnt much in our wages.


    words fail me !! So you think him moving in and adding 32k to the pot makes you worse off !!

    The money he pays to teh CSA is for his child so there is no use complaining about that.
  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    And 300 pounds off 1900 is hardly 'hardly anything left over'!!! Maybe I should get a dictionary as my definition of hardly anything left is not 1600 pounds!
  • sexy_fufu
    sexy_fufu Posts: 758 Forumite
    PLEASE WILL YOU ALL LISTEN..........

    Im not Complaing about what i get, I wished i never started this THREAD ...

    I was just pointing out that I was worse of by £100 in my fiances........ I was just having a moan and making a point.

    Also some of your figures dont add up he takes home 1700 per month and pays 300 out to his children.

    Now please will you all stop slating me.

    I was hoping this thread would just dissapear, Im sorry if i ahve offended people but please now can we drop it.

    Ive had enough of you all slating me i was just pointing out a point thats all.

    Thanks for some of the advice, but please can we let it go now........
    :ASexy_fufu:A
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    Forceful folk here.... nought better to do with their lives.

    My tuppence worth.... is he worth it? If so, work him.... to be more equal minded.
    :D
  • Graham_Devon
    Graham_Devon Posts: 58,560 Forumite
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    You can contact the site to have a thread deleted or locked, as you have started the thread.
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    Forceful folk here.... nought better to do with their lives.

    My tuppence worth.... is he worth it? If so, work him.... to be more equal minded.

    Explain 'Work Him' please?! :D

    And sexy, nice name, take it you have a nice fufu :D :T
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,812 Forumite
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    sexy_fufu wrote:
    PLEASE WILL YOU ALL LISTEN..........Ditto ;)

    I was just pointing out that I was worse of by £100 in my fiances........ I was just having a moan and making a point. Because your boyfriend won't share his salary

    Also some of your figures dont add up he takes home 1700 per month and pays 300 out to his children. I've no idea what net pay is for £32K. .He may get a lower net if he has benefits in kind (eg a company car) or is re-paying a student loan, or pays money into a pension or share-save. The link may be incorrect, but maybe he should check his tax code just in case of an error.
    For the rest I agree with j-baby scotland :beer:
  • sexy_fufu
    sexy_fufu Posts: 758 Forumite
    Actually my nic is really old now, but there is a story about it, when i used to hang out in a chat place known as paltalk. My nic was sexy kung fu fighter from the song 'everybody was kung fu fighting' and in chat rooms a few ppl are called sexy so someone decided to shorten it to sexy fufu and since that day its always stuck so graham sorry to disspapoint you but i dont think my fufu comes in to it im afraid :D


    if it made one person smile then its great.... :rotfl:
    :ASexy_fufu:A
  • sexy_fufu
    sexy_fufu Posts: 758 Forumite
    Hi spend, no its pension and private medical and dentist union social club.

    Perks of the job that have to be paid for LOL
    :ASexy_fufu:A
  • Graham_Devon
    Graham_Devon Posts: 58,560 Forumite
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    sexy_fufu wrote:
    Actually my nic is really old now, but there is a story about it, when i used to hang out in a chat place known as paltalk. My nic was sexy kung fu fighter from the song 'everybody was kung fu fighting' and in chat rooms a few ppl are called sexy so someone decided to shorten it to sexy fufu and since that day its always stuck so graham sorry to disspapoint you but i dont think my fufu comes in to it im afraid :D


    if it made one person smile then its great.... :rotfl:

    Could have just said yes. I'm all dissapointed now :rolleyes: :D
  • Explain 'Work Him' please?! :D

    And sexy, nice name, take it you have a nice fufu :D :T

    My first name start with J..., I have a baby... & I live in scotland...

    I have no 'fufu' as such waiting to see if my babes is brain damaged (complications at birth)... he seems fine.

    You seem an idiot... BIG TIME

    Still sexy Graham... let me slit your throat.
    :D
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