Worse of Boyfriend Moving in

sexy_fufu

This Post as been amended

PLEASE WILL YOU ALL LISTEN..........

Im not Complaing about what i get, I wished i never started this THREAD ...

I was just pointing out that I was worse of by £100 in my fiances........ I was just having a moan and making a point.

Now please will you all stop slating me.

I was hoping this thread would just dissapear, Im sorry if i have offended people but please now can we drop it.

Ive had enough of you all slating me i was just pointing out a point thats all.

Thanks for some of the advice, but please can we let it go now........

zoezoe_3

Why do you say you will be worse off ?

It is not the amount of money you as an individual have that is the relevant figure for deciding this, not the total amount of money coming into the house.

I have never agreed with 50:50 split in the way you describe. What you should do is put your incomes together, take out the bills and then divide the difference.

You will still get some taxcredits if you are a couple.

sexy_fufu

i have deleted this message

likabu_2

Surely if he wants a true 50-50 set up it should be £1200 halved, £600 each and then you use you csa money off your half , maybe I'm wrong?!

Lisa

curlyfairy

Dont forget your tax credits may change when you let them know he has moved in.

Ben.

Spendless

sexy_fufu wrote:

He wont do that, thats what i wanted but he said NO

Then you need to point out, that you are financially worse off by this and also if he contributes to anything to do with your house (eg he pays for repairs) then he may have a claim on your house should you split. I think you need a serious discussion over this.

Aletank

Why is he payinh half of your nursery fees ? He's not the Dad is he ?

Spendless

have you had a look at this site to see what your tax credits wil be

www.entitledto.co.uk

ohreally

sexy_fufu wrote:

What does this government do to give you any incentive to live as a family.

We can debate social policy all night but in terms of your concerns, they can be loosely broken down into two elements...
Do you wish to maintain your current level of benefit or do you wish to progress and develop a relationship at the possible expense of it?
Sorry to sound blunt but thats the choice you may have to make.

MonkeySaving?

Worse off by £100 maybe, but at least you can get a good rough sex session every night

charchar_3

Isn't working tax credit there to pay childcare bills??? That's what mine gets spent on. When i work out my bills i never include nursery fees or WTC as i know that the WTC pays the nursery fees so you shouldn't have to worry about it.