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parents evening/exes gf issues!!!

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  • Your initial part of post 7 makes no sense then?
  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    Yes it does.

    why can't they go at the new time - because it's no different than going at the old time; the OP and her ex will be going together but the ex's new girlfriend clearly doesn't want that.
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    i understand that it's hell living with women
    Not always, anyway who would clean the toilets if we didn't have women?
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • i was more than prepared to go with my ex, at the end of the day we are parents regardless of our marital status now. And he wanted to come with me so he says, it made sense for us to go together since its the night he picks the kids up from me. But like you say what can I do if he's not prepared to say he's going with me to his gf. Oh and I wouldnt really go and have a go at her-I wouldnt give either of them the satisfaction of thinking it bothered me, or give them a reason to !!!!! about me. I was just venting, im not really confrontational, and I would NEVER EVER do anything in front of my children, i've shielded them from the fallout of this mess their father created, and would never do anything that would hurt them or upset them.

    They had a baby together a few months back, when i found out she was pregnant i decided enough was enough and filed for divorce-he then wanted to come back to me and have nothing to do with her or the baby, but because i said no way in hell he's still with her, so that explains a little of the kind of bloke he is.

    I met the gf once briefly when i was pregnant with our son, she was engaged to one of my exes close friends at the time lol. She could barely look me in the eye never mind speak to me, it was only a few months ago that the close friend confirmed my suspicions that ex had slept with her when i was pregnant with our daughter, 4 months after we married. I had confronted him at the time but he tried to make out i was hormonal with the pregnancy and imagining things!!!!
  • thatgirlsam
    thatgirlsam Posts: 10,451 Forumite
    Not always, anyway who would clean the toilets if we didn't have women?

    Ahhh no, classic mistake

    Men don't care if the toilet is clean or not :)
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  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    Not always, anyway who would clean the toilets if we didn't have women?


    without women we could pee in the sink
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Ahhh no, classic mistake

    Men don't care if the toilet is clean or not :)

    :rotfl:
    I think I have the exception then. If there is one thing that he does like to be clean then that it is.
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    why dont you cancel your appt and turn up at the time hes booked?
  • thatgirlsam
    thatgirlsam Posts: 10,451 Forumite
    without women we could pee in the sink

    :rotfl:

    Gross!

    Bathroom or kitchen?
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  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    claire16c wrote: »
    why dont you cancel your appt and turn up at the time hes booked?


    because it'd no doubt cause confrontation at the school if the new girlfriend is with him.
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