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e petition asking for internet constrols on !!!!!! etc
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Torry_Quine wrote: »I could say the same about you.;)
I can only give you my experience as is. I did not have any sexual experience before marriage.
I am aware that it's been aware for generations but was not as easily accessible.
im not a bigot you constantly post bigoted things but claim its your religionReplies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you0 -
bobajob_1966 wrote: »So !!!!!! is not the cause of all this pressure on young girls? The same pressures have existed for generations, have they not?
I wasn't the one who said that but it is part of the reason. It's much more complicated than that and has many factorsEchoLocation wrote: »If I could trouble you for an answer...
I'm not silly enough to now that the only reason you want an answer which you already know is to take the discussion on a whole new tangent.Lost my soulmate so life is empty.
I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »I can fully accept that the principles by which I and others live our lives is hard for others to understand.
It's entirely because it removes sex from where it belongs which is not about giving yourself pleasure but in the relationship between the couple.
This where I'm struggling to understand your point of view. You seem to think that appreciating pornography/erotica is a purely selfish whereas, in reality, many couples enjoy it together and find that it adds something positive to their relationship.0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »I can only give you my experience as is. I did not have any sexual experience before marriage.
and after marriage? should your OH have died when you were young...a lifetime of sublimation? to live like a nun? Of course as I said it is possible and your religion may well have helped you do that...
If I am left alone then either remarriage or celibacy ie no sexual activity at all are the only options.Lost my soulmate so life is empty.
I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »I wasn't the one who said that but it is part of the reason. It's much more complicated than that and has many factors
So it is part of the reason but had no effect on you? Has !!!!!! had a negative effect on your children?0 -
Gloomendoom wrote: »This where I'm struggling to understand your point of view. You seem to think that appreciating pornography/erotica is a purely selfish whereas, in reality, many couples enjoy it together and find that it adds something positive to their relationship.
I struggle to know how appreciating pornograpy can add something positive to the relationshipLost my soulmate so life is empty.
I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander0 -
bobajob_1966 wrote: »So it is part of the reason but had no effect on you? Has !!!!!! had a negative effect on your children?
Personally I have not been exposed to pornography
I have no children.Lost my soulmate so life is empty.
I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »I struggle to know how appreciating pornograpy can add something positive to the relationship
Do you and your partner share common interests, or share new things that you have seen with each other?0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »I struggle to know how appreciating pornograpy can add something positive to the relationship
maybe because you have a very low sex drive?Hi, we’ve had to remove your signature. If you’re not sure why please read the forum rules or email the forum team if you’re still unsure - MSE ForumTeam0 -
Torry_Quine wrote: »Personally I have not been exposed to pornography
I have no children.
I'm beginning to wonder if you've even had sex ...
If you were never 'exposed' to it, why do you feel that so many young people are negatively influenced by !!!!!!? It might not have been available on the internet whilst you were young, but it was available in many other formats.0
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