I Have Messed Up My Life Bigtime

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messedup wrote: »

I have a parachute is alliance and leicter anything to do with tsb
Thx for all your undying support..
I will use my parachute if I need to as it will cause hassles with all direct debits bein moved.....
Or shall I get it all done now in cae...my child benefit csa ftc and salry go into my acct ....would it take just a phone call to all of them to get everything sorted xxx

Do it now. The only warning you'll get when they've taken your money is that your card becomes useless. That's too late.

messedup wrote: »

i dont want to die

You won't die. You just have to get everything sorted. That is one of the things that needs sorting.

LauraLooDFWB

Hello, firstly my OH and i am sorry to hear of you loss.
now getting down about this is easy but you cant let depression win!
My personal advise is go to you local CAB and make an appointment to see a finacial adviser, it might be worth discussing the option of an IVA? This can wipe the interest off your debts and make them more managable. They will make you a plan of what debt to pay and how much you pay they will also speak to all your CC/loan companies on your behalf and tell them you are seeking finacial help and negociate payments with them. I went through the CAB and found them so much help i am now positive about my debt instead of down (well as positive as you can be;) )
Please let us all know how you get on with it and tell us the outcome!
And if you need to moan or want support we are all here!

Laura

LauraLooDFWB

Iv just read the last few posts, i didnt read them all cos there were soooo many. Im so sorry to hear your news hope you get better

Dumyat

how are you feeling messedup? thinking about you

messedup_3

Thx everyone ...I have just got in from work...I am feeling positive and finding the whole future ordeal a complete inconvenience lol...I have the power and energy of a teenager ..a very demanding job ...and I am less worried about being ill for too long as I love my job and need to get better for my boys....life can be v cruel.....as for my accounts I have a couple of accounts and I will use if necessary...knowing my luck it mite be a possibility...once again thankyou thankyou thankyou ...much love and remember live each day as it comes xx