Not mentioning the T word at all

prepareathome

Flowertotmum sending you and your daughter and other family members lots of love and plenty of hugs

scottishminnie

FTM - what terrible news for all of you. I'm so sorry.

Queenie - it's easier said than done but keep your chin up.

There seems to be more bad news than good at the moment. Let's hope everyone makes it through Christmas without any more upsets and 2012 brings better news all round.

shegar

flowertotmum wrote: »

Hi all..bigs hugs and my warmest wishes to shegar..i am so sorry..
And hugs and love to anyone else that just needs a mum hug.
I need a hug myself as my dd lost her baby..very sad and traumatic for her..she is okish but very delicate..
Anyway don't want to bring anyone down so will stop that now.
Just popping on to say "Happy Christmas to you all"..
lots of love
ftm

Arhh thats very sad news FTM, so sorry its a terrible time to get that sort of bad news, hugs to your family..............
Weve been bearing up, its been more than a tough week,poor hubbies emotions are all over the place due to the brain injury he is suffering very badly for the loss of billy, I do believe time is a healer and as yet its very early days.(5).............I phone social services to ask if they could put gary into a nursing home for a week as im shattered , so he goes in tuesday for a week, social services said they think it best for both of us to get a weeks rest,Im drained, im going to get through xmas then look forward to a week on my own , surprising how that week will refresh me, only having to look after myself will be enough..............Gary has been waking in the night so confused dreaming of billy,crying etc,it break my heart to see a man cry , ive had a good talk with him , and decided that the next 5 days will be pretty low key for us , cos its been so hectic with long days up the hospital, its really took it out of me. plus my poor foot decided to get painful on me again dam plantar fasciitus........, Dont help pushing the wheelchair up various hospital departments , corridors, etc...............Apart from this moan im not too bad,!!.....I hope all you together are doing ok, and got christmas sorted, I havnt, but we will get through this hard time you have to dont you.?..........catch you all later......

shegar

GINNYKNIT.......Many thanks for your gift and to all of you who contributed:T, you are all so sweet and very caring, its so nice to know theres always some one out there to talk to,:Tyou lot are super....Take care sheila :T

CCP

The hugest of hugs to shegar, queenie, FTM, and anyone else suffering at the moment. I'm so sorry that you're going through such hard times, particularly at this time of year.

I popped in to say that I'm not sure if I'll be on the forum again until after Christmas, as I'm going to stay with family. If I don't get on again in the next couple of days, I'll wish everyone a very peaceful, comforting sort of Christmas - I think it's what we could all do with right now.

katieowl_2

flowertotmum wrote: »

Hi all..bigs hugs and my warmest wishes to shegar..i am so sorry..
And hugs and love to anyone else that just needs a mum hug.
I need a hug myself as my dd lost her baby..very sad and traumatic for her..she is okish but very delicate..
Anyway don't want to bring anyone down so will stop that now.
Just popping on to say "Happy Christmas to you all"..
lots of love
ftm

Oh So sorry to hear your news FTM, hugs to you and DD.

Kate

VJsmum

FTM - i know from first hand experience that this really doesn't help but i lost my first pregnancy early on. I was devastated and didn't think i would ever get over it.

Six months later I was pregnant again and went through a few months of hell thinking I was going to lose that one too. But that little baby is now 15, taller than me and beautiful and just lovely. If i had had that first pregnancy I wouldn't have had DD and i just can't imagine being without her. These words would have meant nothing to me at the time of the miscarriage but things can and will get better for her. Harder too as you and her sister are both pregnant.

Hugs to you all.

Hugs for queenie and shergar too - I shall count my blessings, rather than complain about how busy i am!

kidcat

FTM - sending hugs seems so small for something like this, but am sending them anyway.

Queenie - sending some your way too.

Am keeping you all in my prayers, and heres hoping for a better 2012.

ETA - Shegar am so glad you are getting abreak and you are right time is great healer.

Bobbykins

FTM - that'[s awfully sad news for your DD and all the rest of the family. Sending warm hugs your way/

Skintbint_3

FTM, so sorry to read your very sad news.